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Little bro says he will go to rehab. Yet he finds reasons like a new job to keep from going. He lives in my rent house I buy his food cloth his kids and the cycle doesn't seem to change. I know that u should not enable an addict. He claims to use meth socially but for someone who has done it for 12 yrs that is not social and claims to be a pot addict. Am I wrong to tell him he has to get out of my rent house. Which I still have a mortgage on. I am torn between what is right in my mind and what I will face from the rest of the family. He says he hasn't used in 2 weeks but I know for fact he used 4 days ago and had to take ddrug test today for new job. I mean he accused me of tossin out a 'pee' bag whatever that is. Any advice is helpful. I don't know how much more of his usery and lies I can handle. I have my own child and really don't want her around him if he is goin to continue using.

Hi and Welcome,

I'm glad you are here seeking support for yourself.

I hope that your brother will recognize that he needs help. Please also check out our Friends & Families forum.

..your not alone,as soon as they get pimples..they get cheeky
and smart....

..give your love n' see what happen's..Oz

Welcome to SR....like Anna said, check out our family forum. Lots of good people there.