I am not doing too good- then I am.....just me well- since I consider you all friends. I would like to tell you where I am.. my life is going really good, no complaints- other than being an alcoholic. I kicked coke and H a long time ago, C was the worst (never got full force with H) but I cant believe how easy it was to get rid of that C and how hard it is to quit drinking! I feel like its ok i guess? I dont know. I am wasting everyone's time. But I wanted to post- I get so much inspiration from you all. Dub |
You aren't wasting our time! But, I'm intrigued by your statement that your life is going good despite being an alcoholic. For me, my life wasn't going good because I was an active unrecovered alcoholic. My life became unmanageable because of alcohol. I watched my life shrink from being one filled with activity, a sense of sureness and direction, to a daily dread of living and an almost paranoid fear of doing the simplest of everyday things. If I have this right, everything is going okay except for your drinking and drinking hasn't affected the quality of your life? Just respecfully curious, because it doesn't usually work that way... |
8 days sober and i have my 1st craving to booze ... we can do it, dude. |
This site exists for people like us Dub. You're not wasting our time. I wasted a lot of my own time though by thinking my drinking was ok - hey it was legal - everyone drinks right? I always paid my bills, everyone still liked me. I was a quiet drunk (well mostly but everyone gets loud and drunk sometimes right?) And hey I wasn't as bad as that drunk, or that poor guy...and at least I wasn't on speed like that guy, or crack or heroin or coke... and all the while, I was killing myself. It's possible to leave it behind Dub - you just have to make the jump. D |
(((Dubs))) I was all over the place emotionally during early recovery. My moods swung around. I think it's part of the body chemicals getting adjusted. Alcohol really seemed to mess with my moods. Are you still drinking? I will tell you, it took me some months to stabilize after I quit. I was in therapy and it helped. Having friends in recovery helped too. I had to learn to breathe again. We are here for me, my friend. Much love, Lenina |
Originally Posted by dedubya
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well- since I consider you all friends. I would like to tell you where I am.. my life is going really good, no complaints- other than being an alcoholic. I kicked coke and H a long time ago, C was the worst (never got full force with H) but I cant believe how easy it was to get rid of that C and how hard it is to quit drinking! I feel like its ok i guess? I dont know. I am wasting everyone's time. But I wanted to post- I get so much inspiration from you all. Dub |
Dear Dub, You write that "life is good",What negative effects do you have from alcohol? |
hey fragrant you bring up a great question. The negatives: I am sure I dont feel 100% everyday, wds, hangover whatever one would call it Money spent- a lot Health- I work out and love to stay in shape, its gone to crap, I still work out and exercise but don't feel like I am used to. Family- bad role model, period. I know I can do better.... Now for the positives I get a 25 minute period of not worrying about things that need handling. Thats pretty much it. One would think I could add all of this up and come up with a solution.... By the way- you are great, I am following your posts, best wishes to you sincerely. Dub |
I am on day four.. you can do it!! |
You do know what the solution is Dub, you just don't want to execute. There is no mystery here. |
(((Dubs))) That 25 minutes isn't worth it, though, is it? I'm here to tell you even that part goes away. It did for me, I wasn't getting any relief, I was just prolonging the misery. In fact, I was making it all worse. Keep posting, my friend. Much love, Lenina |
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