PSA: Let Us Help You -- Posting Etiquette
 

Hi, folks,

I don't often begin threads here, but a conversation I've had both in a thread and in private with another member has convinced me that this needs to be discussed.

Very often, new members post in a rush--long uninterrupted blocks of text that reflect the urgency and racing thoughts that go along with early recovery, or maybe while still drinking/using and seeking help. It's quite natural when that state of mind is expressed in that way. It's the way it feels, and there's so much to pour onto the screen!

Please, let it all out, but remember there are many middle-aged and older members here who would like to help, to offer experience, strength and hope, but who can't read without a little white space thrown in now and then.

So, if you will, please look at your text before you hit "submit new thread" or "post reply." If there are ten, twenty or more lines without a break in between, find a spot and break it up. Otherwise, many of us who might have something to offer will pass it on by because we just can't read text that densely packed together.

May you all have a blessed, clean & sober holiday -- no matter how you celebrate.

Peace & Love,
Sugah

..to each their own Sugah..

..as long as someone communicates..i really don't care

!!!! how they post it...merry xmas...oz..

Hi there!. I totally agree, and I'm a huge advocate for proper writing and grammar. But the weird part is that when I've made larger posts, using correct spacing and indentation, when I press post it all ends up in a mash. ?? Anybody else have that?

I'm with you, Sugah. Paragraph breaks are a great thing. I hate to ignore posts for that reason, but I just can't deal with it. It gives me a headache. If you have the experience mmeat talked about you can always edit after the fact. Help us to help you. I wish everyone a great weekend. :)

Ive never had that mmeat? Don't know why that would happen unless someone has written the text in word and then copied and pasted into the text area on SR...it may remove the formatting?!

Yes, I too have a tough time with a long post that is not broken up in paragraphs. Sometimes, if it is particularly dense, I can't even read it and will pass on it. (Maybe that's a good thing, considering some of my responses :))

But Hey, If the person reaching out needs help and I think I have experience, strength and hope to share, I'll do the work and read it. I've even used a piece of paper as a ruler so I wouldn't lose my place.

So, I'm with Sugah... If you think about it, while you are posting, break it up into paragraphs... If you don't, well, sugs and I will take off 10 points each!! ;)

Good Tidings,

Mark

Yes, paragraphs definitely help in reading posts. Keep reaching out peeps, just hit the enter key a couple of times every so often! :D

Yea..I agree with sug in the being easier to read. But I mostly agree with Ang. The last thing I was thinking about when I was a hot mess was spelling, grammar and writing techniques. Geez, I could barely speak a clear sentence at times.

I hope anybody will reach out whether it be in caps, spaced or not, misspelled or in another language. Just reach out people.

I definately perfer paragraphs and punctuation, but I'm guilty of not using either. It's usually when writing something particularly emotional, it just kinda flows and sometimes you forget. Still, the fact that a person is reaching out by posting anything is what is important.

BTW Wakeup, love the avitar. Those guys are amazing, spend days and days making those designs then sweep them away in about 10 min. Really shows you that material things, no matter how precious, are not what is important in life.

Wow, I didn't think I'd hit a nerve with my suggestion. I sincerely offered it in the spirit of being helpful

I can get through all kinds of creative punctuation, grammar & spelling (even use a fair amount of it myself), and it's not a matter of irritation or impatience that I started this thread--but of the actual physical ability to be able to read on the screen.

But, as I see from above, there are enough folks for whom it's not an issue that I think I'll work on letting it go and trust that newcomers will get the help and support they need without my input.

Peace & Love,
Sugah

I do tend to skim through the ole "wall of text" because I lose my place wile trying to read it. Then I just try to get a feel of what the person is posting and do my best to reply to that.

http://i430.photobucket.com/albums/q...LL_OF_TEXT.jpg

You didn't hit a nerve here, but is it that important to be 'tidy' if its the difference between those early posts or silence?

Kevin

Looking through the thread, I think some might be missing Sugah's initial point

I'm one of those 'middle aged members' with vision problems, and I appreciated the post.

Lets not bend what was/is a reasonable idea out of shape.

Please do keep letting it all out.
Noone wants anything to the contrary :)

We welcome everyone here.
Say whatever you need to say, however you can get it out, and we'll work it out from there.

thanks
D

I thought this discussion was going ok Dee!

On day one I could barely type let alone anything else and as you say it works itself out after that.

Kevin

Thanks Sugah. I can't read all the lines packed together. I can only see out of one eye. Probably would post more often, if I could see it a bit better. BUT I do...enhance the screen settings sometimes, when the fonts are tiny! It helps me. Hugs.

I agree with this post, wholeheartedly. Definitely no nerves hit here and I am not upset. I was more concerned that it was irritating you! Sorry Sugah!
Anyway, the only thing irritating me is boyfriend spending 10 hours on the computer today and when I get on, ten MINUTES later, he says "I am ready for bed!"... RATS!!!! LOLOLOLOL. He's got me again... ;)

Posts with separate paragraphs for different ideas definitely make them easier to read and understand.