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Old 09-09-2009, 08:25 AM
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Hi Gang,my name is Karen and I live in British Colunbia Canada.I do not have a drinking problem but someone near and dear to me does.I am watching himself kill himself and don,t know what more I can do?Let's hope detox has a bed available today as he did put his name in 7 days ago.The wait has been a very go.Anyways he is depressed as well talking about killing himself .It's becoming hard for me .Yesterday he told me to go as we don't live together and that is something he hasn't done before.I am waiting for him so he can call detox as he has no phone.Anyways I will keep in touch,Karen
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Old 09-09-2009, 08:39 AM
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I hope that he goes. If he is suicidal, call the police or other authorities.. suicide threats should always be taken seriously.

There's nothing you can do to 'help' him at this point (or any point in his addiction), please care for yourself as best you can, it sounds like you really care about him.
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Old 09-09-2009, 08:58 AM
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Hi and Welcome,

If he is talking about killing himself, please call 911 and get help.

I will send prayers for both of you.
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Old 09-09-2009, 10:29 AM
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Hi and welcome to SR. What Smacked and 51Anna told you is pretty much my advice too. I hope your friend gets the help needed
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Old 09-09-2009, 03:59 PM
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Hello & welcome to the Sober Recovery community.
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Old 09-09-2009, 04:54 PM
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Hi Rosy961 - welcome to SR

I'm sorry you find yourself in this situation - I hope they found that bed.

This place is a great support, not only for alcoholics and addicts, but their families and friends too - I hope to see you around some more - we have a Family and Friends forum you may be interested in looking at sometime as well

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