having sex for cocaine
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I'm really having trouble believing the original post wasn't some sort of joke... I know plenty about people who trade their body for drugs and they don't usually post on a message board about it first- if its not than you are far, far gone. No one is beyond repair- but I strongly suggest you jump off the white pony, NOW
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Join Date: Aug 2009
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Listen, sex has nothing to do with self-respect, regardless of what has been said here. If you like having sex, have sex. But think about WHY you are having sex.
Sex, like anything else, can be used as a form of tender, for either gender. It can either be used, or it can be abused. I think you have been abusing it, for the wrong reason. I understand the need to have a fix. And if you find it easy to give it over for sex, that means nothing. That is not a black mark against yourself. You are perfectly normal. Just look at WHY you are doing what you are doing. Look at it, and I hope you find something.
Good luck, and I hope you are safe.
By the way, shame on those of you who mention "self-respect" as a means to help this individual. Not the way to go.
Sex, like anything else, can be used as a form of tender, for either gender. It can either be used, or it can be abused. I think you have been abusing it, for the wrong reason. I understand the need to have a fix. And if you find it easy to give it over for sex, that means nothing. That is not a black mark against yourself. You are perfectly normal. Just look at WHY you are doing what you are doing. Look at it, and I hope you find something.
Good luck, and I hope you are safe.
By the way, shame on those of you who mention "self-respect" as a means to help this individual. Not the way to go.
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Location: Where the heart is
Posts: 10,209
Both you and liberty need a reality check.
I dont know what planet of addiction you come from.
How you gonna say trading your morals, dignity, health, life and your whole being for a drug isnt about self worth?
Have you ever thought about it or done it?
You dont need to sell your body to feel the loss of self worth. Which is no different than self respect.
If we had self worth and self respect. We wouldnt do nearly half the things we do to ourselves and our loved ones by our addictions.
When did it become ok to sell your soul for drugs?
Dont try and tell me shame on me.
I have enough of that from myself.
This girl needs to hear where that decision may take her. From people who genuinly care and know all too well where that life will lead her.
No one here can make her do anything. But we can at least try and show her through our own experiences what could happen to her.
I find it far from a joke.
If this is all new to her. I am so glad she is reaching out. Even a little bit.
Whether she has the desire to stop now, or needs some kind of insight into what lies ahead. It doesnt matter to me.
I am going to share as much of myself if I feel it may help open her eyes to a very dark dark road she is headed down.
I wish I had posted or asked someone about selling myself before I did. I may have saved myself alot of hurt, shame and near death experiences.
I guess it takes all kinds to make the world go round.
And before you go jumpin in and try to argue with me. Thats all I need to say to those posts.
Sorry to everyone else for spazzin. But this is far from a joke in my eyes.
I wish I could scoop this girl up and take all that pain away from her.
I am not trying to make this off topic or hijack.
Maybe I shouldnt have even responded.
But that really got under my skin.
I dont know what planet of addiction you come from.
How you gonna say trading your morals, dignity, health, life and your whole being for a drug isnt about self worth?
Have you ever thought about it or done it?
You dont need to sell your body to feel the loss of self worth. Which is no different than self respect.
If we had self worth and self respect. We wouldnt do nearly half the things we do to ourselves and our loved ones by our addictions.
When did it become ok to sell your soul for drugs?
Dont try and tell me shame on me.
I have enough of that from myself.
This girl needs to hear where that decision may take her. From people who genuinly care and know all too well where that life will lead her.
No one here can make her do anything. But we can at least try and show her through our own experiences what could happen to her.
I find it far from a joke.
If this is all new to her. I am so glad she is reaching out. Even a little bit.
Whether she has the desire to stop now, or needs some kind of insight into what lies ahead. It doesnt matter to me.
I am going to share as much of myself if I feel it may help open her eyes to a very dark dark road she is headed down.
I wish I had posted or asked someone about selling myself before I did. I may have saved myself alot of hurt, shame and near death experiences.
I guess it takes all kinds to make the world go round.
And before you go jumpin in and try to argue with me. Thats all I need to say to those posts.
Sorry to everyone else for spazzin. But this is far from a joke in my eyes.
I wish I could scoop this girl up and take all that pain away from her.
I am not trying to make this off topic or hijack.
Maybe I shouldnt have even responded.
But that really got under my skin.
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Join Date: Mar 2009
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You are a precious child of God or whomever you believe in. God doesn't make junk. Please get down on your knees and pray, ask God to help you, I know he will. I did many things for money that I was and am not proud of. Look at how unmanageable your life has become, please slowly read all the posts and know that they have been written from their hearts because they care about you and have been where you are now. The heart and soul of addicts just like you and me. You deserve better than that.
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Originally Posted by Aysha 
Both you and liberty need a reality check.
I dont know what planet of addiction you come from.
How you gonna say trading your morals, dignity, health, life and your whole being for a drug isnt about self worth?
Have you ever thought about it or done it?
You dont need to sell your body to feel the loss of self worth. Which is no different than self respect.
If we had self worth and self respect. We wouldnt do nearly half the things we do to ourselves and our loved ones by our addictions.
When did it become ok to sell your soul for drugs?
Dont try and tell me shame on me.
I have enough of that from myself.
This girl needs to hear where that decision may take her. From people who genuinly care and know all too well where that life will lead her.
No one here can make her do anything. But we can at least try and show her through our own experiences what could happen to her.
I find it far from a joke.
If this is all new to her. I am so glad she is reaching out. Even a little bit.
Whether she has the desire to stop now, or needs some kind of insight into what lies ahead. It doesnt matter to me.
I am going to share as much of myself if I feel it may help open her eyes to a very dark dark road she is headed down.
I wish I had posted or asked someone about selling myself before I did. I may have saved myself alot of hurt, shame and near death experiences.
I guess it takes all kinds to make the world go round.
And before you go jumpin in and try to argue with me. Thats all I need to say to those posts.
Sorry to everyone else for spazzin. But this is far from a joke in my eyes.
I wish I could scoop this girl up and take all that pain away from her.
I am not trying to make this off topic or hijack.
Maybe I shouldnt have even responded.
But that really got under my skin.
I dont know what planet of addiction you come from.
How you gonna say trading your morals, dignity, health, life and your whole being for a drug isnt about self worth?
Have you ever thought about it or done it?
You dont need to sell your body to feel the loss of self worth. Which is no different than self respect.
If we had self worth and self respect. We wouldnt do nearly half the things we do to ourselves and our loved ones by our addictions.
When did it become ok to sell your soul for drugs?
Dont try and tell me shame on me.
I have enough of that from myself.
This girl needs to hear where that decision may take her. From people who genuinly care and know all too well where that life will lead her.
No one here can make her do anything. But we can at least try and show her through our own experiences what could happen to her.
I find it far from a joke.
If this is all new to her. I am so glad she is reaching out. Even a little bit.
Whether she has the desire to stop now, or needs some kind of insight into what lies ahead. It doesnt matter to me.
I am going to share as much of myself if I feel it may help open her eyes to a very dark dark road she is headed down.
I wish I had posted or asked someone about selling myself before I did. I may have saved myself alot of hurt, shame and near death experiences.
I guess it takes all kinds to make the world go round.
And before you go jumpin in and try to argue with me. Thats all I need to say to those posts.
Sorry to everyone else for spazzin. But this is far from a joke in my eyes.
I wish I could scoop this girl up and take all that pain away from her.
I am not trying to make this off topic or hijack.
Maybe I shouldnt have even responded.
But that really got under my skin.
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girloverboard read your first post in this thread, now pretend your little sister or a very dear friend had posted that, what would you say to them? Apply what you would say to them to yourself.
Put out your hand and ask for help, it is there, you are not alone!
Put out your hand and ask for help, it is there, you are not alone!
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ran out. my dealer said for casual sex on thursday (evern though i have a boyfriend) he will give me some..
I feel terrible but have no idea what to do, i cant say no because then i lose contacts and argh im scared
I feel terrible but have no idea what to do, i cant say no because then i lose contacts and argh im scared
What you are calling "problems" are not problems, they are choices. The one true problem you have is addiction, and you didn't name that as a problem.
The drama of running out of cash, running out of drugs, considering sleeping for drugs, cheating on boyfriend are all the RESULT of your one, true problem: addiction.
Next week will be a different set of dramatic results. And the week after.
Isn't it time to identify and start doing something about problem number one?
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