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Old 07-27-2009, 06:03 PM
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A few people have asked where the thread 'Hard Times' has gone. Well I asked Anna to remove it s I felt I was uing it to whine too much and thats old behaviour and that was just self self self and then I realised that removing was also self self self and that the thread may have helped others and allowed others to have expressed there love, concern or support for me.

So thank you for asking about me I am ok, fighting the finance company, got a 30 day stay yesterday and looking to get a 6 month Hardship order. Using the Tools NA has given me inparticular the God that I do not understand

Still here, still kicking, and still an addict in Recovery.

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Old 07-27-2009, 06:08 PM
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Good to hear it *hugs*
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Old 07-27-2009, 06:15 PM
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And, still getting lots of prayers and hugs from me, Kev!
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Old 07-27-2009, 06:16 PM
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And, still getting lots of prayers and hugs from me, Kev!
That made me smile (((((Anna)))))
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Glad to hear you got a stay...maybe a good sign..

Prayers your way Kevin,

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Old 07-27-2009, 06:32 PM
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Kev, in my almost 2 yrs. at SR - I've never known you to be a whiner. You have plenty of legitimate reasons for being worried and angry about your situation. That's not whining to me - it's sharing an upsetting situation with friends, looking for some relief. Don't ever stop reaching out.
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Old 07-27-2009, 06:36 PM
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Kev, in my almost 2 yrs. at SR - I've never known you to be a whiner. You have plenty of legitimate reasons for being worried and angry about your situation. That's not whining to me - it's sharing an upsetting situation with friends, looking for some relief. Don't ever stop reaching out.
Almost two years Hevyn, how cool is that
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Sound good Kevin

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Old 07-27-2009, 06:49 PM
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lol NewDayNow, must admit to those kind of images floating around at first, but then I have to just aceept it is what it is and get on with enjoying life. I spoke to my HP and said I am not having any fun here and since then I have felt my spirit lighten.
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Old 07-27-2009, 07:00 PM
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I agree with Hevyn - dealing with bad situations and reaching out is not whining - it's what we're here for!

Hope you get a break Kev
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Old 07-27-2009, 07:10 PM
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Kev thanks for posting that you got a 30 day stay.

Stay positive even when you just don't feel like it,
God's not gonna toss you aside and I believe that you know that.

I will continue my prayers for you.
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I agree with Hevyn - dealing with bad situations and reaching out is not whining - it's what we're here for!

Hope you get a break Kev
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Oh crikey, me an my mouth! I was talking about me and my acting out thats all, I tend to get caught up in that poor old me thing, thats one of my character defects, maybe the biggest one and its hard to let go of it.

Of course I agree, we get to express what is going on for us here at SR. Now where is that duct tape
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my HP gives me you guys thats how I get by, I get support, examples and the info I need to move on from here and at NA and then out there

Thanks.
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Currently listening to Lou Reed blast out Sweet Jane, that helps me too!

Oh what those geetar riffs do for my spirit. 57 and still playing Air guitar, I was so done and dead at 20, was a member of the walking dead for so long
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Me too.
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Old 07-28-2009, 10:10 AM
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I know I my seem a bit crusty on the outside but I am getting a little softer in the middle as I mature in my sobriety. I'm self employed. When I'm not worrying about my liver I'm all about business. The number one rule of business- No one messes with me or mine. Relax, Meditate, run a few miles,get it in perspective and then----------
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Thanks NewDay, doing all that I can and actively looking for other options. Is that what you meant?
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Yeah, options are good.

Sorry if I get a little overly animated but this stuff really burns my bacon. I'm going through something much like what you’re going through. Missed some payments and landed in default. Just need a little more time.

The first lawyer got me a couple of weeks. The second tough smart lawyer got my loan reinstated. Now all I have to do is find a buyer. Hope that part works out
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Spent most of yesterday hiding and all of last night planning to run away. I have no idea how I am holding on.
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You know as well as I do, mate - hiding and running away got us nowhere for too long.
We do things differently now

I hope you find a way through this today Kevin
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