my illusions that I'm still fighting
I'll have a go:
1. Alcohol is the only thing in my life that I can always depend on
Alcohol is a gamble for me. It's like going to the races and winning or losing. I have no idea as to the outcome, so I can't depend on it. I could end up having a couple of glasses of wine and go to bed safe, or I could end up sleeping it off in the tool shed, with my family wondering where the hell I am.
2. It never leaves me alone, it never hurts me, it always makes me feel like I belong
It can hurt me. Real bad. It actually leaves me alone as well: I don't like associating with people when I'm drunk.
3. It gets rid of all my boredom, all of my anxiety
Can't agree there: I had intense alcohol induced anxiety and sobriety took that horrible feeling away. Bored? well, yeah, I can be bored drunk or sober. That is another issue.
4. It makes me patient
Can't agree there either: I had a rip-your-face-off temper when drinking. Patience I am finally learning in sobriety.
5. It makes me creative
Can't agree there, either. I was always too butt-lazy to do anything drunk. I was an artist and alcohol made me quit doing art for 10 years. Only in sobriety have I started to work with art again.
6. It makes me into a fun person
Only in my own opinion! I wouldn't want to ask other people how fun I was. I don't think I would like the answer.
7. It makes life worth living
If I could stay awake long enough. I was always sleeping off a drunk or passed out or blacked out, so life worth living was not really on the menu.
1. Alcohol is the only thing in my life that I can always depend on
Alcohol is a gamble for me. It's like going to the races and winning or losing. I have no idea as to the outcome, so I can't depend on it. I could end up having a couple of glasses of wine and go to bed safe, or I could end up sleeping it off in the tool shed, with my family wondering where the hell I am.
2. It never leaves me alone, it never hurts me, it always makes me feel like I belong
It can hurt me. Real bad. It actually leaves me alone as well: I don't like associating with people when I'm drunk.
3. It gets rid of all my boredom, all of my anxiety
Can't agree there: I had intense alcohol induced anxiety and sobriety took that horrible feeling away. Bored? well, yeah, I can be bored drunk or sober. That is another issue.
4. It makes me patient
Can't agree there either: I had a rip-your-face-off temper when drinking. Patience I am finally learning in sobriety.
5. It makes me creative
Can't agree there, either. I was always too butt-lazy to do anything drunk. I was an artist and alcohol made me quit doing art for 10 years. Only in sobriety have I started to work with art again.
6. It makes me into a fun person
Only in my own opinion! I wouldn't want to ask other people how fun I was. I don't think I would like the answer.
7. It makes life worth living
If I could stay awake long enough. I was always sleeping off a drunk or passed out or blacked out, so life worth living was not really on the menu.
delusions, excuses, 'reasons', lies..
I learned that it was ME that made ME those things that I loved.. and was completely unable to experience it or enhance it all drunked up all the time.
After being sober for a while, I keep amazing myself.. and I love that.
I learned that it was ME that made ME those things that I loved.. and was completely unable to experience it or enhance it all drunked up all the time.
After being sober for a while, I keep amazing myself.. and I love that.
here's what I have been taught to ask myself when thoughts like that come to me:
WHERE DID YOU GET THAT INFORMATION???
Ooooooooh!
Again?
Yep.
MY MIND.........lol, I hate it when that happens!!!
Bad place to go for information!!!!
WHERE DID YOU GET THAT INFORMATION???
Ooooooooh!
Again?
Yep.
MY MIND.........lol, I hate it when that happens!!!
Bad place to go for information!!!!
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