What do you have to lose by following through with your recovery? Hi everybody, great forum and great site, got just over 90 days clean from opiates. ahhhh, life is grand!! my first post here. currently in a outpatient program and my counselor asked me an interesting question last night that kind of left me short of words. What do you have to lose by following through with your recovery?? not, "by not following through with your recovery" but, "by following through with your recovery" So my question is what do you have to lose by following through with your recovery? Take care everybody |
Hi and Welcome, Good for you with 90 days clean! By following through with my recovery, I lost the illusions I had built about myself. They fell away from me, and what was left was my soul. |
I may lose: the horrid guilt of being a dick while drunk and not remembering it. the sick nauseous feeling in the morning. my racing heart when I'm trying to sleep. So loud it can wake me up. the depression. knocking many years off the end of my life. May lose the opportunity to get fired at work for being hungover all the time. List can go on and on. |
Lots of terrible things. Some highlights: I'd lose -
But also:
I'm new to this, so I guess there's things on both sides still for me. It was a really good exercise to do though. Thank you. Jayne |
I forgot to mention the ~$7300 my wife and I were spending on spirits each year. Not to belittle recovery for it's own right, but that's A LOT of cash! This reasoning helped us quit cigarettes. Here in NYC, a pack of American Spirit smokes are $10, which is about 7300 too! Two bad habits that cost us about $15000, not to mention the health savings in the future, and the lost income from side effects of booze and smokes. |
Someone once, a while back when I first joined said something that stuck with me.. it's simple... and likely a well known phrase but.. No one ever regrets not drinking (or using.. etc). So true. |
glad you got a lot out of this Jayne2-great list. these posts gave me a list of quite a few things i would lose. paranoia feelings of guilt and shame dopesick feeling depression jail time hopelessness....... hey palemale never thought of it in $$$$ point of view, I spent many thousands on drugs over the years, and cigs, which i am currently trying to kick, the chantix isn't working so well. anyway thanks to all, more replies appreciated. |
I will lose my delusion that drinking all the time is alright. I will lose waking up feeling horrible. I will lose the possibility of having an accident with my car and hurting someone. I will lose some of my self hatred. I will lose the feeling of being 'lost' and afraid. |
Hi and WELCOME to SR! Congrats on your 90 days! What a great question too! What have you got to lose if you follow through with your recovery? Well, I'll lose an EMPTY bank account, excessive overdraft fees, getting high in a house full of strangers (or just one stranger who tries to talk me into sexual favors for more drugs), lying to my friends and family. I'll happily lose staying up for days at a time and not eating. Lose the fear of being caught with crack in my truck. Lose the guilty feelings I have after spending a weekend getting high and blowing all of my money! Wow.. I'll lose all the bad stuff associated with being a crackhead in actuve addiction. I REALLY LOVE those kinds of losses! WOOT! |
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