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Old 03-22-2009, 05:36 PM
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Question Why some peeps use the chat and others dont....?

So my curiosity is getting the best of me...

I was wondering for all those who would like to share with me

why is it that some chat and some dont.....I guess I will go first...

I use the chat room for many things...
~when its really late and I need some company or advice...
~when Im sad and need a virtual hug
~when I feel like Im not fitting in, in the forums
~when I cant sleep...
~when I feel like helping someone else feel better

and many other reasons....what are your reasons?
:ghug
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Old 03-22-2009, 05:58 PM
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I don't use chat because I'm a little paranoid about being connected through.....is it....java? Whatever it is, I have misgivings about that....I would feel exposed.
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I don't 'do' chat cause I'm not into texting at all. For 'real time' conversations i'd rather talk on the phone instead of typing my responses and trying, unsuccessfully, to keep up with more than one person with typing instead of talking. I'm a fairly quick typist, but not as quickly as I can talk.

So chat 'bothers' me cause I can't keep up and much prefer 'voice' communication over typing/texting-type communication.

Chat evokes unease and frustration, at least, it has the times I've tried it. (on another forum)

did that make any sense?:wtf2 It's hard to describe my feelings...
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I can no longer read print...my Zoom program that is
my tool for the net....is not compatible with Chat.

vividserenity....I see you also use our Discussion Boards
and Blogs....as well as Chat. Good for you!
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Old 03-22-2009, 06:10 PM
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Originally Posted by Bamboozle View Post
I don't use chat because I'm a little paranoid about being connected through.....is it....java? Whatever it is, I have misgivings about that....I would feel exposed.


Bam, I mean this in the kindest way:

mmmkay...

I have a hard time keeping up due to OCD stuff (going back, re-reading, etc.), but I occasionally brave it anyway.
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Breeches in security.
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Breeches in security.
I'm jus teasin', Bam. Seriously though, Java applications are everywhere.
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I know....like Big Brother. I'm trying to minimize my risk.
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Old 03-22-2009, 06:28 PM
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my typin sux

All I know is, LOL LMAO ROFLMAO maybe 2 or 3 other slangs OH, BRB got 2 P is the other one

hmmm
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I use to go in there all the time..It died down for a little while and just stopped goin.
Plus I dont know anyone in there anymore.
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Originally Posted by vividserenity View Post
So my curiosity is getting the best of me...

I was wondering for all those who would like to share with me

why is it that some chat and some dont.....I guess I will go first...

I use the chat room for many things...
~when its really late and I need some company or advice...
~when Im sad and need a virtual hug
~when I feel like Im not fitting in, in the forums
~when I cant sleep...
~when I feel like helping someone else feel better

and many other reasons....what are your reasons?
:ghug
For me, txting and emailing was the preferred method of 'communication' of my addict ex. Seems to be a forum for folks that haven't quite gotten a hold of the sobriety thing, IMO. Too much quacking, not enough doing.
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Old 03-22-2009, 07:15 PM
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Seems to be a forum for folks that haven't quite gotten a hold of the sobriety thing, IMO. Too much quacking, not enough doing.
Wow I think this is quite an over generalization! based on what exactly? Your experience with one person?

Not really constructive.....
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Old 03-22-2009, 07:18 PM
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I guess I really don't have a reason VS. Perhaps I should check it out sometime.
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Old 03-22-2009, 07:22 PM
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Ken, if you decide to come visit us in the room I promise not to let the sock people get you !
Come visit us! hehe
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Two kids, busy life etc. It always seems that as soon as I sit down to the computer my kids or husband need something. Since my children are younger, they come first. On the forums I can come back and post after I have taken care of the kids or DH.
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Old 03-22-2009, 07:24 PM
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Hmm...
Pleease let's not make this a debate on who does
what and or why.

Sharing your experiences and opinion is the point
yes?

Thanks Everyone....
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Old 03-22-2009, 07:25 PM
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Chiy.....I would love to see ya there, come visit sometime... :ghug3
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Old 03-22-2009, 07:29 PM
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I am in there now..LOL
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Old 03-22-2009, 07:36 PM
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I love the chat room!
As a matter of fact, I'm going there now to have some fun!
See you there, vividserenity!!!
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