flgirl

Thanks guys,

I knew I could count on you! It just astounds me that I can still let him push my buttons. I have made the decision that he no longer has any power over me. I have not responded to the rest of his emails. You guys are the best!

:ghug

Toomutch

flgirl- I'm glad that you have taken the control away from him. (((BIG HUGS)))

Ananda

I'm so glad flgrl! I have been saying alot of sutras on your behalf (sort like prayer)

a meeting might help keep you focused (I htink yu do aa....if not maybe try?)

we are all here with you

flgirl

ananda,

tell me about sutras. It would help me to know exactly what they are.

flgirl

toomutch,

I have take control away by deciding to forgive him. He can no longer do me the harm that he has done before.

:ghug3

tommyk

He might be angry knowing that he doesn't rent space in your mind anymore.

If you forgive him it means you are ready to 'heal' and move on, he might not like that either.

So... are you sure you want to live your own life, be happy, maintain some serenity, and not dwell on thoughts of someone else?

(Sounds to me like you are experiencing some 'growth' in the right direction.)

flgirl

Hi tommy,

I am ready to let go.. so if that's what you mean I really don't give a f*&^ what he thinks. I have to do this for me. This is a person who has left several times because he could not commit. The last time he came back I asked if he was really, really sure that this is what he wanted. Apparently the joke's on me..BUT having said that...NEVER again.