Notices

Ok I did it

Thread Tools
 
Old 07-10-2008, 05:29 PM
  # 21 (permalink)  
Member
 
Horselover's Avatar
 
Join Date: May 2008
Location: NY
Posts: 6,608
"I have felt bad all these years because my behavior"

Please be gentle with yourself and guess what - I think you acted as many in that position might. You were in pain over a lost love and a lost friendship. We are not perfect, we are human. I think its time to forgive yourself.
Horselover is offline  
Old 07-10-2008, 06:00 PM
  # 22 (permalink)  
Member
 
Klynn33's Avatar
 
Join Date: Jun 2008
Location: Langley, BC
Posts: 1,007
hmmm...so do you have to make amends to people if you didn't get caught.............?
if they don't know you did anything in the first place?
Klynn33 is offline  
Old 07-10-2008, 06:05 PM
  # 23 (permalink)  
Member
 
Taking5's Avatar
 
Join Date: Jun 2006
Location: LA - Lower Alabama
Posts: 5,068
Originally Posted by Klynn33 View Post
hmmm...so do you have to make amends to people if you didn't get caught.............?
if they don't know you did anything in the first place?
I am not quite sure how you concluded that. Please read step 9 again. If the amends will hurt them or others you can:

a) make an incomplete or partial amends
b) make an indirect amends
c) make no amends
d) wait until the amends will not hurt them or others, and make it at that later date.
Taking5 is offline  
Old 07-10-2008, 06:08 PM
  # 24 (permalink)  
Member
 
Join Date: Nov 2007
Posts: 26,425
I think it was a joke dgillz


But seriously...I so far am not making direct amends to people who i spoke badly of (but they don't know it)...i think it would cause more harm. I do as was suggested before and my amend is in correcting the wrong that i caused by my remarks by speaking to the person I made the remarks to.
Ananda is offline  
Old 07-10-2008, 09:07 PM
  # 25 (permalink)  
FreeSpirit
 
BUTTERFLY-7's Avatar
 
Join Date: Feb 2008
Location: Inside My Spirit
Posts: 1,274
way 2 Go Just Let Go & Let God













cleaning after my mess
BUTTERFLY-7 is offline  

Currently Active Users Viewing this Thread: 1 (0 members and 1 guests)
 
Posting Rules
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

BB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is Off
Trackbacks are On
Pingbacks are On
Refbacks are Off





All times are GMT -7. The time now is 04:08 PM.