PurrCal

My boyfriend lives for pills. He drinks all day with his sister and I feel rage inside of myself because I love him. But I think that deep love is changing and my mom recommended this online group. My boyfriend is in his 40's and could very well die. I am just now admitting my unmanageable life, and leaving it to God for today

Frontier

I recommend that you try your local alnon. group. A good place to find meets is the yellowpages or the local police. they know where the AA and Alnon meets are.
Good luck. Prayers are with you'

ThisIsTheDay

Hi PurrCal....Welcome to SR

I have many many friends from over 30 years ago (still alive) that take pills and drink daily.....this is one of the worst mixes on the planet...there brain's gets rewired and they become paranoid. You really need to get proffesional help for him. But he needs to be ready to qiut... best thing you could do is, not to enable these act's!

Good luck

tommyk

Welcome, talk it out.

Aysha

All you can do is take care of yourself and let him fall on his face.

Rella927

Welcome Purrcal to SR! Glad that you found us!

Sorry that you are going through this right now-addiction is tuff on all
parties involved-

Please check out our Friends & Family forum-and the stickies that are
located at the top of the forums- http://www.soberrecovery.com/forums/...ly-alcoholics/

There is a lot of support and information
here! I do hope that you stick around and keep posting!