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Old 04-06-2008, 11:47 AM
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Hi. My name is Larry and I'm an alcoholic.

Last night I had 71 days of sobriety. After a long day at work (12) hours I decided to take up an offer from a good looking blond lady friend of mine to go see a hardcore death Metal band down at one of the local clubs. I was told the whole gang would be there and when I arrived they were all there. It was great to see them all together again. When I walked into the club it was a rush. I mean a big time rush. Up on the stage was a Guitar player beating the sh@t out of guitar like I have never seen before. He was truly amazing.

I may be biased because he is my 20 year old son Brian. The blond is my wife and the gang was my 2 sons Garret, Bret, nephews Bryce, Dallas down in the mosh pit with their girlfriends and other friends their to support Brian and his band Akashish.

It is the first time I have been sober and able to go see him at one of his shows. I'm still emotional about the pride I had for Brian and all of them. Afterwards when we were all talking outside I new no amount of alcohol could make me feel as good as these people could.

I'm grateful to be sober for 72 days. :ghug2
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Old 04-06-2008, 11:55 AM
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Old 04-06-2008, 11:56 AM
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Old 04-06-2008, 11:59 AM
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Wow -- Thanks, man. THAT was awesome. Thank's for sharing your pride, passion and gratitude.
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Old 04-06-2008, 01:04 PM
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PS. Bret called and he just got a letter in the mail saying he passed his GED test. This is the good kind of pride I have heard about.
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Sounds like things are going really well for you! Enjoy it! Happy for you..
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Old 04-06-2008, 01:29 PM
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thanks Larry - great story
well done to Brian



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Old 04-06-2008, 02:10 PM
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Beautiful post Dean!

Thanks for sharing that.
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Old 04-06-2008, 02:48 PM
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:ghug3 Deany!! So happy for you You deserve whatever goodness comes your way. You've earned it big guy.

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Old 04-06-2008, 03:02 PM
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Good one, Larry !

You had me there...good looking blond lady, hardcore death metal, "had" 71 days of sobriety. I'm reading and "uh-oh" is going through my mind. The pride you have for your boys is so clear in your posts..they sure must be proud of Dad. Thank you so much for sharing. D
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Old 04-06-2008, 04:21 PM
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That's awesome news Larry/Dean. It's those types of things that'll keep you going. Keep going.
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Old 04-06-2008, 04:35 PM
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Hey man!

Good for you! Good for your family. I'd even go to a death metal concert if it meant that.

Keep it up. Continue to let others know how good it can be.

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Old 04-06-2008, 09:35 PM
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Hi Larry!

I too was worried when I first started reading your thread. I thought you were coming on here to let us know that you picked up last night. This is one of those times I'm glad to say that I am wrong!

I imagine that 73 days ago you would have never dreamed that your beautiful Wife would encourage you to go to a club with her!

And to go with your Sons and their friends too!

And, a drum roll please . . . you didn't drink!

That's awesome!

I know how wonderful I feel when my Son wants me around when only a few years ago he would go out of his way to make sure I didn't find out when and where his baseball games were or any other events that I would surely show up and embarress him at.

I can only imagine the pride your felt watching your one Son tear up the club with his music while your other Sons and their friends were having a blast as well.

Do you think this would classify as one of the Eleven Promises coming true for you ? " . . . we will comprehend the word Serenity and we will know Peace . . . " I don't think this is what they had in mind when the Promises were written, but for you, I know you felt Serenity and Peace listening to metal and watching the mosh pit

Thanks for sharing your incredible experience with us!

God Bless & Thank God . . . Just for Today,
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Old 04-07-2008, 08:13 AM
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Totally fabulous post! Reading your post made me SO PROUD of you and for you. It made me feel extremely proud to be sober myself!
Awesome post Dean.
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Old 04-07-2008, 08:21 AM
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Your message is POWERFUL...

The longer we remain sober, the simple gifts of life become precious to us...
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