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CC
Well done! If you can unburden yourself by being honest, I think that is the best of all possible worlds. With the exception of not having to tell anything, of course.
Some people have circumstances where they are unable to be honest, and I feel for them. Now your cards are on the table and you can go forth with honesty and without all the hiding behavior.
Do you feel unburdened? Has a layer of anxiety been removed? I'm sure your lady will take some time to adjust, but then she has been adjusting without knowing it for some time.
Good luck!
warrens
Well done! If you can unburden yourself by being honest, I think that is the best of all possible worlds. With the exception of not having to tell anything, of course.
Some people have circumstances where they are unable to be honest, and I feel for them. Now your cards are on the table and you can go forth with honesty and without all the hiding behavior.
Do you feel unburdened? Has a layer of anxiety been removed? I'm sure your lady will take some time to adjust, but then she has been adjusting without knowing it for some time.
Good luck!
warrens
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Agreed with all. Being able to stop hiding and coming clean with the people closest in your life will have an amazing effect on your recovery.
Just bear in mind, some people will get it, and some won't. And that's cool. As selfish as it seems, it's all about you at this point. You can't expect to help, love or take care of someone else until you do the same for yourself.
God speed.
Heat
Just bear in mind, some people will get it, and some won't. And that's cool. As selfish as it seems, it's all about you at this point. You can't expect to help, love or take care of someone else until you do the same for yourself.
God speed.
Heat
thanks for the support u guys,
it feels good indeed, having nothing to hide,
I hope to face my parents in a similar way too one day, altough i really have to think about wether this is the right thing to do (for them).
I am on day 3 now, taking it one step at a time, I actually think I can make it to day four,
it feels good indeed, having nothing to hide,
I hope to face my parents in a similar way too one day, altough i really have to think about wether this is the right thing to do (for them).
I am on day 3 now, taking it one step at a time, I actually think I can make it to day four,
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Speaking our truth as Taz stated "will set us free" and it is a wonderful feeling! A cinderblock off the shoulder!
Good for you! Great courage and strength-Lots of good thoughts to you
Good for you! Great courage and strength-Lots of good thoughts to you
CC,
The truth can be so freeing... I hope you will find it in you to share with your parents about your illness. If not in the beginning, I'm sure they will eventually be suportive. It's possible that they already have somewhat of an idea of what's been going on. Families tend to pe quite perseptive on these types of issues. They can also be a huge source of support for you.
My thoughts and prayers are with you.:ghug3
The truth can be so freeing... I hope you will find it in you to share with your parents about your illness. If not in the beginning, I'm sure they will eventually be suportive. It's possible that they already have somewhat of an idea of what's been going on. Families tend to pe quite perseptive on these types of issues. They can also be a huge source of support for you.
My thoughts and prayers are with you.:ghug3
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