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Old 02-17-2008, 03:30 PM
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Hello,
I need advice on whether to check into the hospital or not. I am a binge drinker and I have been drunk probably 13 of the last 14 days with maybe only a couple of dry days prior. I have had 4 beers in the last 15 hours and I had to chug 3 of those before coming to work because I was shaking and my heart was pounding very hard. I typically detox myself but I don't think it's been this bad before. I've been reading the various opinions on detoxing medically and I guess I am not sure on what do to. I've also just gone through a terrible break up and have had suicidal thoughts.
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Old 02-17-2008, 03:36 PM
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Yes, get to a Doctor and find a detox, having done that make a plan about what you are going to do when you leave teh detox.

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Old 02-17-2008, 03:41 PM
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i 2nd that, detox can be deadly
it gets worse each time, be honest about the thoughts of suicide
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Old 02-17-2008, 03:46 PM
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An honest talk with your doctor is wise.

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Old 02-17-2008, 03:58 PM
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Thanks

Thanks for the advice. I'll be checking into a facility shortly.
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Old 02-17-2008, 04:00 PM
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Best of luck!! Update us when you can! You can do this.
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Old 02-17-2008, 04:00 PM
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good Onya, keep us posted and take it easy, its not a race, one day at a time
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Old 02-17-2008, 04:05 PM
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Best of luck. You are doing the right thing. Come back when you can!
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Old 02-17-2008, 04:09 PM
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Excellent idea....


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Old 02-17-2008, 04:57 PM
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awesome, keep us posted
take it easy, and take care of yourself
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Old 02-18-2008, 05:03 PM
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Well I went to the hospital did receive some good news, despite being a heavy binge drinker for 13 or maybe 14 years I am physically healthy and I didn't require a hospital stay for withdrawals. I was certainly dehydrated and experiencing an enormous amount of anxiety and depression but I wasn't in any immediate danger. Doctor sent me home and advised lots of liquids and prescribed some Ativan for a few days to get me by. I also have a meeting scheduled this week to enter an intensive outpatient program that deals with dual diagnosis (anxiety/depression as well as alcohol problem). I am a bit nervous because I know I will have to change the way I think about things including myself but the alternative is worse. I believe I was in denial for a very long time but I can just look back at all of the lost jobs, missed opportunities, time spent in jail because of DUI's, time spent in hospitals or mental facilities, hurt and worried family members, and of course destroyed personal relationships. Pride is stil trying to tell me I can make without help but I tell pride to go jump in that lake of destruction that drinking and not dealing with my other issues has caused. Thanks for the posts all, I really appreciate and it makes me realize that I am not alone.
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Old 02-18-2008, 05:43 PM
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Welcome, that's all great news. Good luck with the outpatient program, and good luck facing your demons.

I guess, like yourself, I just had to accept that I couldn't do this on my own, and needed help. I applaud your courage in standing up and saying the same thing - it's not easy, but it makes things much easier.

Keep us posted on how it's all going,

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Old 02-18-2008, 10:53 PM
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Please see if this informational link is helpful for you

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