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chicago 11-03-2007 09:55 PM

Cloud 9
 
Wow I am feeling pretty amazing right now. I have met a girl. I've had several sober relationships, but this is a feeling I haven't felt in a long time. Even though I've been in dozens of relationships (sober and non sober) this is a unique feeling. Less than a handful of times I've truely felt like this. I try not to put expectations on things today because often times I get let down. So I will try to remain reserved, but I am happy. I am really enjoying this feeling right now.

bval 11-03-2007 10:09 PM

Good for you, chicago.

Want my best advice?

Don't tell her you feel this way until at LEAST ... like ... the day you are putting the ring on her finger.

And I know all the females are gonna jump on me for saying that but ... bro ... trust me on this. Don't hand your power over to them.

BTW, I'd say the exact same thing to a girl talking about a guy she just met, so ... it's not about gender, its about PEOPLE.

Wish it were different, but hey ... it is what it is.

Anyways, ENJOY that feeling to the fullest, it is great, isn't it? But ... if you really NEED to tell someone about having it? Tell your mom...

tellus 11-03-2007 10:21 PM


Originally Posted by bvaljalo (Post 1550811)
Don't tell her you feel this way until at LEAST ... like ... the day you are putting the ring on her finger.

QFE. Really.

Doug 11-04-2007 12:36 AM

Enjoy it today for what it is Chicago. :)

stone 11-04-2007 01:02 AM

Nice one Chicago. :)

My advice? Be yourself! :09:

(and dont take anyones advice on women).

Dee74 11-04-2007 02:06 AM

actually bj...know what works ?
treating women like people...and equals....not combatants

hope this helps
D

Missymae737 11-04-2007 03:04 AM

Chicago,

Enjoy the moment...

You deserve to be happy....:c018:


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