things you have learnt along this journey... I thought it might be fun to share some of the things I have learnt thus far ~along my journey & that it would be equally great to have others share for my learning... alcoholism is an actual medical diagnosis which effects 20% of the population. [Explained to me by an Addictions Specialist/Dr.] It is not because I am weak of character or lack the true will that I am powerless over alcohol....rather the opposite...think of how many times I have tried to "get it right"...[Explained to me by an Addictions Specialist/Dr.] I am only responsible for myself...nothing others do is because of me. I am no ones keeper ~ nor do I wish to be. I give back the negative to its rightful owner. To own it makes me ill. In order to be free and have forgiveness myself...I have to genuinely forgive others. I need to stay open to & rely on my HP as I know it ~in order to receive the strength & discipline required to continue this journey. In may be one moment at a time, or one day at a time...but it is for a lifetime. The journey is lifelong & requires a major shift in my lifestyle & my "working" the program in order to succeed. I am deserving. Thanks for letting me share, looking forward to learning from you & wishing* you a great 24! |
God ...AA....Me We make an awesome trinity for recovery :approve: Thanks for letting me share |
Alcoholism is a lifelong deadly disease. How I got it is irrelevant. If I want to recover I must do certain things. I am more and more coming into the deep understanding that what I need to do was written down by the first 100 members of AA. So, I am working the steps as they are laid out in the BB and I seem to be getting better. (just call me thumper) Ted |
* thump thump* You've got a good grasp there arian, IMO. |
For me I'm learning how to stay sober a day a time with AA. For me I can't think i have to do this the rest of my life or i won't make it. I just live 24 hour at a time. Barb |
This is a fantastic topic, I could write a book here!!!! LOL I learned that my way of staying sober does not work! I learned that if I worked and lived the 12 steps a miracle would occur for me! I have learned how to be loved and how to love. I have learned that life is far easier when I turn it over. I have learned what it feels like to have the promises fulfilled. I have learned that there are rooms full of miracles in this world. I have learned that as long as I remain teachable I stand a chance. I have learned that I only have today. I have learned forgiveness & tolerance of others and myself. I have learned that my will, will get me drunk! I have learned that if I do not have that first drink I will not get drunk. I have learned that sobriety is peace and serenity among many other good things. I have learned that the hell of my past can help others escape thier own hell. I have learned that I can only keep myself sober. I have learned that I am not responsible if some one else gets drunk. I have learned that I can not help those who are not willing to help them selfs. I have learned to stop fighting and to live in peace. I have learned that "Change I must, or die I will." is true. I have learned that I can not write everything I have learned because I continue to learn as I am learning more by typing this. |
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