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Join Date: Feb 2007
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Hi Lelp.
Welcome to SR and to recovery. Thanks for letting us know how you got on. I am really pleased it went well for you.
I didn't expect to grow up to be an alcoholic either. It wasn't on my list of desired achievements if you know what I mean. AA makes the difference for me. I have met the most wonderful people. Now I just have to grow up. Hehe.
Welcome to SR and to recovery. Thanks for letting us know how you got on. I am really pleased it went well for you.
I didn't expect to grow up to be an alcoholic either. It wasn't on my list of desired achievements if you know what I mean. AA makes the difference for me. I have met the most wonderful people. Now I just have to grow up. Hehe.
smileyologist and lord of bees
Join Date: Sep 2007
Location: mourning smileys near you
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I haven't been to my first meeting yet, glad you got on ok Lelping - this thread has given me more confidence to actually go to my first one. It will be on Sunday I think as that is when they meet here.
Didn't say anything about open meetings or anything so can I just appear? Also, I find it hard to communicate with people sometimes (don't know why, I never used to be like that) when not drunk, so I also hope they don't expect me to stand up and tell them all about myself etc?
Didn't say anything about open meetings or anything so can I just appear? Also, I find it hard to communicate with people sometimes (don't know why, I never used to be like that) when not drunk, so I also hope they don't expect me to stand up and tell them all about myself etc?
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Join Date: Nov 2006
Location: Fredericksburg, Va.
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Lelping glad to hear your meeting went well, keep in mind that not all meetings are the same, they are like people, some are very serious, others are pretty laid back. Keep checking out meetings until you find a good mix of people & meetings to get the support you need.
RK if you want to stop drinking you can go to any AA meeting you want to unless it is a ladies only meeting. You can sit anywhere you want and not say a word if you do not want to. If someone asks if you would like to share, just say "No thanks, I am just listening."
Keep in mind that every sober alcohlic in AA had to go to a "First Meeting!".
I have heard it said in the rooms that we are only late to one meeting no matter how many we go to. We are always late getting to our first meeting!
RK if you want to stop drinking you can go to any AA meeting you want to unless it is a ladies only meeting. You can sit anywhere you want and not say a word if you do not want to. If someone asks if you would like to share, just say "No thanks, I am just listening."
Keep in mind that every sober alcohlic in AA had to go to a "First Meeting!".
I have heard it said in the rooms that we are only late to one meeting no matter how many we go to. We are always late getting to our first meeting!
smileyologist and lord of bees
Join Date: Sep 2007
Location: mourning smileys near you
Posts: 2,508
Originally Posted by Tazman53 
Lelping glad to hear your meeting went well, keep in mind that not all meetings are the same, they are like people, some are very serious, others are pretty laid back. Keep checking out meetings until you find a good mix of people & meetings to get the support you need.
RK if you want to stop drinking you can go to any AA meeting you want to unless it is a ladies only meeting. You can sit anywhere you want and not say a word if you do not want to. If someone asks if you would like to share, just say "No thanks, I am just listening."
Keep in mind that every sober alcohlic in AA had to go to a "First Meeting!".
I have heard it said in the rooms that we are only late to one meeting no matter how many we go to. We are always late getting to our first meeting!
RK if you want to stop drinking you can go to any AA meeting you want to unless it is a ladies only meeting. You can sit anywhere you want and not say a word if you do not want to. If someone asks if you would like to share, just say "No thanks, I am just listening."
Keep in mind that every sober alcohlic in AA had to go to a "First Meeting!".
I have heard it said in the rooms that we are only late to one meeting no matter how many we go to. We are always late getting to our first meeting!
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Join Date: Sep 2007
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Hi RK. Go go go. I went to my second meeting tonight (a different meeting from the one on Tuesday) and I think I have been blessed because again it was a great experience. Different to the first but I definitely feel like I have found my people. I had heard some horror stories about meetings being cliquey and un-welcoming but this has not been my experience at all. No one will make you do anything you don't want to do. At the first meeting I just sat at the back and listened. In the meeting tonight it was a little different as everyone was asked to introduce themselves and state how long they had been sober. In my case having to say "I am an alcoholic, 5 weeks sober" was very very difficult but also very freeing. You will hear a lot of talk about steps and sponsors which is quite confusing at first but don't worry about all of that. Just go, listen and see if you can relate to what you are hearing. After sixteen years of binge drinking I felt like there was no one in the world who was the same as me or who could possibly understand what I was going through and it has been such a relief to find out that I am not alone. Good luck on Sunday; I hope that you have the same experience as me.
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