sober sex?
simplysober
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Join Date: Aug 2007
Posts: 118
Thankyou everybody for the input on this! LOL i dont know how to quote on this yet- if i did this would be filled with alot! "lets bring sober sexy back!" that was so funny!!!!! Luckily my bf doesnt hardly ever drink, In over 2 yrs only seen him drink 2 times. and he never got drunk- so that wont be a problem. Today is day #5 for me, and I am excited enough about that alone. this sober thing can be hysterical, sorta.
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maria
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maria
Sober sex is definitely better. When I was all pilled up...I was numb to any kind of emotion especially arousal...is that an emotion??????? anyway I can actually aceive the ever elusive orgasm(too vulgar?) now that I am sober. Although along comes with that is the guilt of faking it so many times due to the painkillers in me. Sometimes it hurts to feel things but nay time sober is better than all of the times high.....Viki
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Hmmmmn...talk about honesty! At age 75, and nearly 28 years sober, it's fortunate I have a good memory. Except for my very early sexual experiences (before I started drinking), I can't say I ever had much "sober sex", even after lots of partners and two husbands. Matter of fact, after I quit drinking, a lot of counseling and step work convinced me I almost had to be under the influence to "participate" because I was so sexually repressed.
Unfortunately, during sobriety, I've only had three partners (one of them my ex-husband...does that count?). This was in early sobriety when I was still very needy and vulnerable. I wasn't drinking, but I could hardly define it as "sober sex", since it was pretty meaningless.
Since about my third year of sobriety, I've been "celibate"...more through circumstances than choice, but it's OK. I'm counting on you younguns to confirm what I always suspected...that sober anything is better.
Unfortunately, during sobriety, I've only had three partners (one of them my ex-husband...does that count?). This was in early sobriety when I was still very needy and vulnerable. I wasn't drinking, but I could hardly define it as "sober sex", since it was pretty meaningless.
Since about my third year of sobriety, I've been "celibate"...more through circumstances than choice, but it's OK. I'm counting on you younguns to confirm what I always suspected...that sober anything is better.
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