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Old 07-29-2007, 06:48 PM
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Cool I use to drink to sleep, but now I sleep better without..

When my mind would race like a speeding bullet and I felt so much anxiety and tension from bad things that have happend to me in the past including as a child having to experience 2 dysfunctional real parents and then 7 crazy step parents, I would drink a lot before trying to go to sleep. I thought that way I wouldn't just toss and turn for hours at a time with high stress and depression. Now sober only 20 days, I am not getting up at 4AM feeling hungover and sick and depressed any longer. I actually am sleeping like somewhat of a normal person. That has meant so much to me. Just another reason I want to stay clean and sober.
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Amen to that, 96.

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Old 07-29-2007, 07:52 PM
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Now sober only 20 days
Don't say "only" be proud that you have accomplished 20 days! For those of us with 6 (ME!) you're an inspiration!

I've often drank to be able to sleep too. That or to come down from doing so much of other substances

Glad you're here.
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Old 07-29-2007, 09:18 PM
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Isn't it awesome waking up without that feeling of impending doom? One of the first things I noticed about being sober.

congrats on your 20 days!!

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Old 07-29-2007, 10:22 PM
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Isn't it awesome waking up without that feeling of impending doom? One of the first things I noticed about being sober.
God, I remember that.....*shudders*

BTW, welcome 96 !!!!!

You may experience some insomnia in the coming months. And, you'll most likely haf drinking dreams. It's all normal, and to be expected.

Are you working a program ? A good 12 step program will put all the baggage you're carrying around away for good.
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Old 07-29-2007, 10:24 PM
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Congratulations on 20 days 96. I also drank to help go to sleep, and for a bunch more reasons. I actually really didn't need a reason. I just loved getting drunk.

Today is the end of day 8 for me.

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Old 07-29-2007, 10:28 PM
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Originally Posted by 96tears View Post
When my mind would race like a speeding bullet and I felt so much anxiety and tension from bad things that have happend to me in the past including as a child having to experience 2 dysfunctional real parents and then 7 crazy step parents, I would drink a lot before trying to go to sleep. I thought that way I wouldn't just toss and turn for hours at a time with high stress and depression. Now sober only 20 days, I am not getting up at 4AM feeling hungover and sick and depressed any longer. I actually am sleeping like somewhat of a normal person. That has meant so much to me. Just another reason I want to stay clean and sober.
congrats to you !
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Old 07-30-2007, 03:33 AM
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welcome 96....I thought i drank to help me relax and sleep too....i didn't,"go to sleep"....i'd pass out.....Now,i love my sleep time....and waking up is never a chore....this is just one of the benefits of being sober....
stick around at SR.....and congrats on your sober time!
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Old 07-30-2007, 05:06 AM
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Welcome, and congratulations on your sober time.

I used to drink to 'help' me sleep - and, like others, I was merely passing out. They say that using alcohol to fall asleep prevents you from entering into a true REM sleep. So it's actually not really so restful.

Thanks for sharing, 96
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Old 07-30-2007, 05:29 AM
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Sober sleep is not to be under-estimated! It is a wonderful thing.
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Old 07-30-2007, 07:24 AM
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That's what I thought too. You really can sleep again? It seems so elusive. I've been up the entire 36 hours since my last drink. I want it to be my last.
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I also self-medicated to relieve my anxiety. Since being sober I've hardly had a sleepless night. I've also found getting off caffeine to be a great help.
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Old 07-30-2007, 08:21 AM
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Yes, you really will sleep again. Just ask Stone, he went through a terrible period of insomnia.
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Old 07-30-2007, 09:16 AM
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It's great, isn't it, 96? I'm also one who is sleeping like a baby these days...the alcohol was messing up my sleep for years. Congrats on your sober time!
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Old 08-02-2007, 01:26 PM
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Amen to that, 96.

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Old 08-02-2007, 01:32 PM
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Welcome Michael, glad you've joined us. I'm so grateful for true, sober sleep. Every morning in sobriety promises a rewarding day.
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Old 08-02-2007, 04:07 PM
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Originally Posted by mike_mass View Post
I also self-medicated to relieve my anxiety. Since being sober I've hardly had a sleepless night. I've also found getting off caffeine to be a great help.

agreed..caffeine is out, decaf ..the lot....I have slept the last week pretty well...and getting better...
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Old 08-02-2007, 05:47 PM
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Hi 96, glad to have you with us. On the days I wasn't drinking I had to take sleeping pills to get to sleep. Now I don't need the pills anymore. GH
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