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h4lov909 02-23-2007 05:49 PM

Help??
 
my husband just took off after we had a family dinner he sust left there is tons of booze in the house i begged and cried i can't do this

Missymae737 02-23-2007 05:55 PM

Hi,

You can get through this, stay with us, go to a meeting, call someone you trust.

You can do this!

Thinking of you and sending strength your way.

h4lov909 02-23-2007 05:57 PM

i have noone only him i cant breathe right now

Missymae737 02-23-2007 06:04 PM

Hi,

If you are having difficulty breathing maybe you should,

Seek medical help ok?

TamTam 02-23-2007 06:05 PM

h4- hang on sweetie- stay here with us, ok

h4lov909 02-23-2007 06:11 PM

not real just panic how do i stay sober while my life falls apart, i just want to shrink into a dustball my kids are asking when hes coming home his best freind is calling looking for him Hello it is Fri night But the amount of emotions I have right now is ridiclios and ive never done well with emotion

TamTam 02-23-2007 06:18 PM

You have to know drinking is not going to help the situation. I know how bad you want to drink- I know how hard it is to deal with these emotions. Take deep breaths and keep posting.

h4lov909 02-23-2007 06:33 PM

he has never aknowleged my problem he brought home aa books like 3 yrs ago but i got "better" then we were even questioned by people in our religion and he stuck up for me. i quit for over 30 days and then only drank on the weekends not even binge just a few he thought he was loving me by protecting me from the truth and now that i want to fix it hes done. i am not strong without him i can not raise my kids by myself, spritualy, emotionally or finacially, he always helped, i have no concept of being able to do this alone.i know so many people have been through things ive bee reading the forum for 2 days ALOT but i have no strenth no goodness

TamTam 02-23-2007 06:36 PM

you do have goodness and you can find strength

Tyrant 02-23-2007 06:37 PM

u can message me i will listen to you to help you stop...its not a problem i like to listen and stuff...hang in there...=)

hope3 02-24-2007 06:41 AM

Hi h4lov909, Hang in there. It sounds like you could deffinately use a

support group, maybe he can't handle being that right now.

It's ok, I really think you could benefit from the support of A.A.

so you don't have to do it alone.

Hers the closest one I could find to your address. Give them a call

go to a few meetings and see what you think..(((((((hope3)))))))

N/AAlcoholics Anonymous (760) 951-9243 14240 Saint Andrews Dr, Victorville, CA 5.16 mi
Map | Directions | Send to Phone See all: Addiction Treatment

Anna 02-24-2007 06:45 AM

Hi,

I am sorry for your situation and the pain you are feeling. But, you can this, and you can do it for yourself. There is lots of support here, so keep posting.


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