person197

I am a gay male and I was wondering if it would be wise to seek out a gay AA meeting due to them being understanding of issues that affect me more or any meeting is fine?

CarolD

Hi...
Why not do both?

I have always enjoyed a mixture...more interesting!

Take care

aasharon90

Hi Im Sharon and Im an Alcoholic.

Im glad ur here....Nice to meet you too.

It's always nice to have another AA friend
to share with.

Anna

Welcome and I'm so glad you found us.

There is lots of support here.

hope3

Hi Person197, Welcome to the forum, you will feel very welcome here.
People are very helpful and supportive here.

I'm hope3 and I am a recoverying alcoholic, 83 days and I am so glad I found this site...I'm also gay in a happy 18 year relationship.

I think Carol is right, try both meetings, if you feel comfortable...I don't know how homophobic your area is or isn't. We all have relationship problems, addiction problems, and many others. Even if we are gay, basic problems are still just that problems.
I wish you a smooth recovery, and keep comming back> ((((((((hope3))))))))

person197

Yeah in Phoenix the gay meetings seem to be in the more central areas of the city so a closer one may be better hmmm

hope3

Hmmmmm, Person good thinking..let us know how it goes......

If you just need to talk, and want to PM me feel free..I'm going to bed now, but I'll be around tommorrow. (((((((hope3))))))

ayla zaire

welcome, person......i'm glad you found us, and i hope you stick around...this can be a great place to find some of the support you need...

hugs
ayla

chicago

im straight and ive gotten alot out of a couple Gay AA meetings that ive gone to. my guess is you'd get alot of out all different types of AA meetings.

parentrecovers

just wanted to say welcome, person197 - i have a daughter in early recovery and she goes to aa meeting almost everyday. it really helps her stay focused and be accountable. try different ones, and you'll most likely find groups you relate you? let us know how it goes! blessings, k

Rusty Zipper

197... if it wasnt for the traditions... no gay a, no aa...

in fairfield county, loads of gays... we have gay meets, have lots of close aa friends gay, and family menbers gay...

gay meets, in conjuction with reg meets are benifical...

by the way... my gay friend was responsible for geting me in the rooms... gay a, reg aa... just some recovery program is the order...

and the big book says we are a gay bunch.. lol, just led & read that at HG mon. night...

good wishes 197... xxoo, rz

Missymae737

Hi 197,

Wishing you a warm welcome to our great group of people!!

gurujake

As a gay and sober member of Alcoholics Anonymous, I welcome you to a new way of life. While similarities abound across all alcoholic communities, I have found that it is easier for me to be totally open and honest in gay meetings. While I have found all meetings very accepting, there is always a slight bit of worry associated with attending new straight/mixed meetings. I have found that AA works best for me when I am uncensored. It's easier to be so when I am not worrying about shocking or offending someone who does not agree with or understand our lifestyle. By the way, I have been to a couple of gay meetings in Phoenix as a visitor and the people there were awesome. Give it a try and see how you like it.

hope3

Hi person, sounds like a lot of good and different angles to look at in your
decision, I have to agree with everyone. You'll know which meets you feel more comfortable in, the main thing is to get into a program that is supportive and a continued sorce for your recovery, thats all then.
Have a great sober day! (((((((hope3)))))))))

1_day@_a_time

perhaps you try both

try lots of different meetings

i have been to thousands.......they differ greatly

go for it!

iwthswayahm

Hi! I really appreciate your honesty!! Would you like to chat with me?

Dee74

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