What should I do?
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What should I do?
Hi,
I'm not sure where to start......I was divorced for 10 yrs. then remarried, I have been married for a yr. and a half. Well I guess I'm pretty stupid, but did not know my husband was an alcholic. I have begged him to stop but he will not.My daughter hates him and he is not a very nice person when he has been drinking. He drinks almost everyday if he has the money to do so. I left him once due to this and he said he had stopped drinking and he would go to AA but ........ you guessed it... he did not. I just started going to AL-Anon. I so hate the way that things are right now. I hate him drinking I do not TRUST him at all. I believe in trust in a marriage and I feel very insecure. I like to think of myself as a very outgoing type person, but this has really put a cloud over my head. I cry all the time and feel so lost.We have no friends and I do not let my daughter have friends over unless I know I'm going to be home... PLEASE someone with some wisdom (HELP ). I'm begging.
Deltarose
I'm not sure where to start......I was divorced for 10 yrs. then remarried, I have been married for a yr. and a half. Well I guess I'm pretty stupid, but did not know my husband was an alcholic. I have begged him to stop but he will not.My daughter hates him and he is not a very nice person when he has been drinking. He drinks almost everyday if he has the money to do so. I left him once due to this and he said he had stopped drinking and he would go to AA but ........ you guessed it... he did not. I just started going to AL-Anon. I so hate the way that things are right now. I hate him drinking I do not TRUST him at all. I believe in trust in a marriage and I feel very insecure. I like to think of myself as a very outgoing type person, but this has really put a cloud over my head. I cry all the time and feel so lost.We have no friends and I do not let my daughter have friends over unless I know I'm going to be home... PLEASE someone with some wisdom (HELP ). I'm begging.
Deltarose
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Hi and Welcome!
Here is the link for the Forum Anna suggested
http://www.soberrecovery.com/forums/...ly-alcoholics/
Take care of you and your daughter.. Hugs
Here is the link for the Forum Anna suggested
http://www.soberrecovery.com/forums/...ly-alcoholics/
Take care of you and your daughter.. Hugs
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Join Date: Apr 2004
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Welcome Deltarose
Great that you are going to Al Anon. Along with the support and info you gain from meetings, SR and the wonderful people here will be an added support.
Your not alone. Many will come along with some great answers.
Have a look at the Friends and Family board and read the posts at the top that say "sticky" beside them.
As people show with support and answers, they will post.
Again welcome.
Great that you are going to Al Anon. Along with the support and info you gain from meetings, SR and the wonderful people here will be an added support.
Your not alone. Many will come along with some great answers.
Have a look at the Friends and Family board and read the posts at the top that say "sticky" beside them.
As people show with support and answers, they will post.
Again welcome.
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