Treatment Facilities
 

I have been prospecting treatment facilities. I am struggling with the idea of being cut off from the rest of the world (especially my family). What is the reasoning behind this? I thought the purpose of treatment was to prepare me to exist sober in the real world. Looking back on my past, I see that I often drank excessively to cope with issues that arose from my interaction with the real world. Some of these issues were related to school, career, relationships with women, and relationships with family members. How does my absence from the real word contribute to recovery? My goal is to remain in the real world and quit drinking for good. I know those issues I mentioned above will always exist. Will isolation from the issues really help me deal with them?

I am really curious...

Have you tried anything we have been suggesting?

Job? AA? Credit repair? Recovery theraphy?
Talking to your family? Addiction specialist?

Sometime we can be paralyzed by our situation
into inaction.
If this is true for you...tomorrow just do one
positive action to 'un stick' your life.

You CAN find answers and you are so worth the work.
:Val004:

Carol,

I have been active on some fronts. In terms of a job search, I have two offers. I am waiting for my background check results. I will go with the first employer that gives me the green light.

I am also going to AA meetings. I haven't been able to go daily, but I have gone to 2 this week.

I haven't really talked to my family. I brought up the subject with my brother, but he was quick to dismiss my concerns. I think he has a problem with alcohol as well. Fortunately, he has not suffered the same consequences as I have.

I admit I have a ton of questions. It seems like everyone I try to talk to (including my brother, my attorney, AA members, treatment center staff) doesn't have time to deal with me.

You may be pleased to hear that I am nearing 1 month of sobriety (for first time since high school-over 12 years ago).

I hope I am not misusing this forum. That is certainly not my intention. I am new to this, so please let me know if I am crossing any lines.

Thanks for reading my posts.

Cubbie

Fantastic!! :banana:

No you are not crossing any lines
and questions are great!

I apologize for any confusion.
I was concerned.
I am so pleased to see a positive update.

I have never been to a treatment center so can not
share on their effectiveness or methods.

Glad to see you moving forward...:Val004:

Cubbie,

We are very glad that you're here.

Your question about Treatment centers is very valid. And, I really don't know the answer. I haven't been to one. Hopefully someone who has this experience will respond soon.

Congratulations on your almost one month of sobriety. That's terrific. It sounds like you mind feeling alone, at this time. I so remember feeling completely lost and alone when I knew I had to stop drinking, but had no clue how to get to where I wanted to be. I think what I learned is that it's a long, slow process. But, you're on your way!