Why did I drink?
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Why did I drink?
In spite of the intense sinus headache accompanied by the blahs, I had very eye opening self realization weekend, and like to share.
I started on my soberness on June 11th had a slip one day and have not drank since July 1st....
....Just made it through a big party weekend here at the the shore and I got to see what I wasn't missing.
Friday for the first time I felt strong enough to stop by and old drinking partners house, my kids wanted to play with her kids so I said okay. 4:00 in the afternoon and she was bombed on Skyy, she immediately said you don't want a shot do you, no I said I don't thank you. She proceed ed to tell her new boy friend , who though had been drinking to was respectably buzzed, how I got her hooked on skyy and then quit drinking on her. Though I felt bad for her I was glad that was not me anymore, we didn't stay long she kept saying I was looking at her funny because she was drunk and I wasn't but really, I wasn't, It her choice, I wonder if she even remembers I was there.
Sunday I spent the afternoon at the football field (my daughters cheer) and was actual able to talk to other parents without wondering if they knew how much I had to drink or having to sneak away for a shot or three..
Sunday night I pick up my friends daughter an took to a local event, when I returned her I stayed for a while to hang out with some friends I have known most of my life Every one had been drinking most of the day I guess I use to slur and talk that loud too by the end of the day, If I hadn't already passed out.
Many people worry about being around the drink and the drinkers, I knew when I started on this journey that I wouldn't be able to avoid it, not with out walking away from everyone I know and giving up most of what I do. I have found I don't miss drinking at parties and events and when everyone is drunk I am relived it is not me, I do find I make an early exit partial because It's hard to hold a conversation with a bunch of drunks and partly because I don't Loose track of time anymore.
My husband seems to drinking a lot less he is trying not to drink at all, he slips every one and a while, he even told a friend he is trying to stay on the wagon. I guess a six pack week is better that 6 or so a day. He rarely gets drunk, it's easy for him to have just a few, lucky *******.
Well, I hope I didn't bore you with my play by play of my weekend, and i hope I encouraged some newbies. I going to try and lay low here for a while I am going to be buried with work (lots of papers to grade) and grad classes (lots of papers to write.) I'll probably be reading but not posting much.
Lately I have been asking myself, Why did I drink, what could it have posibly added to my life? I found one answer today, it seems i had been drinking for so long, 30 years ,that I never knew I could get by with out it, and I was always afraid to try.
I started on my soberness on June 11th had a slip one day and have not drank since July 1st....
....Just made it through a big party weekend here at the the shore and I got to see what I wasn't missing.
Friday for the first time I felt strong enough to stop by and old drinking partners house, my kids wanted to play with her kids so I said okay. 4:00 in the afternoon and she was bombed on Skyy, she immediately said you don't want a shot do you, no I said I don't thank you. She proceed ed to tell her new boy friend , who though had been drinking to was respectably buzzed, how I got her hooked on skyy and then quit drinking on her. Though I felt bad for her I was glad that was not me anymore, we didn't stay long she kept saying I was looking at her funny because she was drunk and I wasn't but really, I wasn't, It her choice, I wonder if she even remembers I was there.
Sunday I spent the afternoon at the football field (my daughters cheer) and was actual able to talk to other parents without wondering if they knew how much I had to drink or having to sneak away for a shot or three..
Sunday night I pick up my friends daughter an took to a local event, when I returned her I stayed for a while to hang out with some friends I have known most of my life Every one had been drinking most of the day I guess I use to slur and talk that loud too by the end of the day, If I hadn't already passed out.
Many people worry about being around the drink and the drinkers, I knew when I started on this journey that I wouldn't be able to avoid it, not with out walking away from everyone I know and giving up most of what I do. I have found I don't miss drinking at parties and events and when everyone is drunk I am relived it is not me, I do find I make an early exit partial because It's hard to hold a conversation with a bunch of drunks and partly because I don't Loose track of time anymore.
My husband seems to drinking a lot less he is trying not to drink at all, he slips every one and a while, he even told a friend he is trying to stay on the wagon. I guess a six pack week is better that 6 or so a day. He rarely gets drunk, it's easy for him to have just a few, lucky *******.
Well, I hope I didn't bore you with my play by play of my weekend, and i hope I encouraged some newbies. I going to try and lay low here for a while I am going to be buried with work (lots of papers to grade) and grad classes (lots of papers to write.) I'll probably be reading but not posting much.
Lately I have been asking myself, Why did I drink, what could it have posibly added to my life? I found one answer today, it seems i had been drinking for so long, 30 years ,that I never knew I could get by with out it, and I was always afraid to try.
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you were able to show incredible strength and power in the face of an addiction that had ahold of you for so long. that is nothing short of amazing -and you're right - powerful encouragement for those of us just starting out.
I can relate. I was around a bunch of drinking over the weekend. It started early in the day and some were pretty hammered by the afternoon. I did not miss not being able to participate. I too was having a tough time dealing with slurred conversations. I was happy to go home sober and NOT pass out from over doing it. I kept looking at others and imagining myself in the same situation. I shudder to think what I was like drunk. I never want anyone to see me drunk ever again, nor do I ever want to be drunk again. Good riddance...
GOOD FOR YOU FOR STAYING A STEP AHEAD OF THE DRINKING.
GOOD FOR YOU FOR STAYING A STEP AHEAD OF THE DRINKING.
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I need to stay strong this week it's my first week back to work, Friday coming!
I avoid the 1st dy back lunch out at the local tavern, just didn't feel strong enough. Funny I've been around dinking all sumer no problem.
I avoid the 1st dy back lunch out at the local tavern, just didn't feel strong enough. Funny I've been around dinking all sumer no problem.
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I avoid the 1st dy back lunch out at the local tavern, just didn't feel strong enough. Funny I've been around dinking all sumer no problem.
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