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Old 12-29-2022, 11:06 AM
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I am sorry, Runner. And proud of you, as well.
And yes—we will all be here to support you, without a doubt.
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Old 12-29-2022, 11:21 AM
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You did the right thing, Runner. I know it probably wasn’t the response you needed, but know that we are here to support. You are making all the right moves - you got this ☺️
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Old 12-29-2022, 11:27 AM
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How is your day 23 going, dear Takeaction?
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Old 12-29-2022, 11:37 AM
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So proud of you, Runner.

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Old 12-29-2022, 12:44 PM
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I am sorry for your loss ZB.

I’m glad you talked RunnerF- it would be great if our loved ones could give us support, but sometimes for various reasons that’s just not the case. At least you’ll always find support here

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Old 12-29-2022, 12:59 PM
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Thanks all for your support.

It wasn’t the response I wanted but it was what I expected.

Will do my best to hang tough and do the right thing.

Zenith boy. Sorry for the loss of your brother. Sad he didn’t have his wife’s support. I am sure that was hard for him and is hard for her now.
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Old 12-29-2022, 02:54 PM
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Just in case anyone doesn't know

We'll move this thread at the end of the month so that the new monthly thread (January 2023) can take its place here in Newcomers forum.

This December 2022 thread stays intact, but moves to the Daily Support forum.

Some members, may prefer to move to January's thread, but there's no rule about that at all - stay here, move, or post in both - it's really up to you

I wanted to remind everyone you're all very welcome to keep posting in this thread.

It will keep going!

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Old 12-29-2022, 03:07 PM
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Hi, Venuscat!

It’s been a pretty good day! I’m busy at work and have my dance class scheduled tonight. I did have something interesting happen to me….a coworker brought Christmas gifts for everyone today, and one of the gifts for me was GIN.

I thought about having a shot, but why would I do that? I gave it away instead!

I hope you’re having a fantastic day!
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Old 12-29-2022, 03:18 PM
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You gave it away......fantastic!!!!
I hope you have a fabulous dance class tonight. ❤️

I am watching Hacks; I put it off, knowing there would not be a lot of great shows at this time of year, and I am having a ball. What an awesome-to-the-max tv show this is.
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Old 12-29-2022, 03:21 PM
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Takeaction, good for you for giving away the Gin.

Runner, I'm sorry that your wife isn't supportive, but as you said, we are all here for you. You know you're doing the right thing.
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Old 12-29-2022, 05:02 PM
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I was just thinking about you, Zen.

I think you are a tech head like me, and I am betting you noticed that Google Lens (PITA) is hard to get rid of now, which makes it difficult to search for images.
If you know what I am on about and what the fix, I have it. (Insert evil laugh...take that, Google! ).
I'm learning all the time. I'm self-taught web stuff PC functions/programs and whatnot, Sure I'd like anything you got buddy

Hang In there ZB

Just chill for the day. Rest up a tad. Done for the day
"Much suffering, much unhappiness arises when you take each thought that comes into your head for the truth." - Eckhart Tolle


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Old 12-29-2022, 06:52 PM
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I had to give it away! I don’t think I trusted myself completely to take it home. The amount of alcohol being given as gifts in the workplace is astounding.

Going into the new year a plan has already been put into action. I started my life’s resolution 23 days ago, and I couldn’t be happier. Grateful for sobriety and all of you
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Old 12-29-2022, 10:20 PM
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Hi All, Hope everyone is doing well and staying strong during this holiday season. End of Day 411 for me. Good night from Seattle.
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Old 12-30-2022, 01:45 AM
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Good morning all sorry relapsed this morning after 9 days sober will get back on track tomorrow seeing as I’ve had a drink tonight. Congrats on all your days sober. Just wish I could stick with it I find it so hard especially when I’m hearing so many voices (psychosis)
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Old 12-30-2022, 02:18 AM
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Hi lovely people, you're all doing such interesting things to stay clean! I'm on day five here, mostly just cleaning the house and re-watching Parks and Recreation from scratch. Plus cuddling the dogs. I've only been on day 5 twice in the last four years, so I'm feeling really hopeful. Take care all xxxx
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Old 12-30-2022, 02:58 AM
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Good morning friends,
. It's another peaceful morning here.
Time to sit and reflect on the things I'm grateful for.
Having coffee with my sweet cat,
She's quite the daddy's girl.
I went and did some New years grocery shopping yesterday morning before the crowds hit.
So I will just spend a quiet day at home.
Misstqueen - I know this is so tough for you.
I will keep you in my prayers.
Please keep trying.
Have you seen a doctor for the voices issue?
Stillsleeping- congrats on 5 days. I enjoy binge watching sitcoms too. I never watched "the office" when it ran. But I enjoy that as well as old Frazier episodes. I'll have to check out Parks.
I pledge sobriety for today.
Best wishes to all!
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Old 12-30-2022, 04:03 AM
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Hey SR. Think I'm on day 10? Glad to be done with Christmas, not my favourite time of year. I like New Years though, fresh start and all.

I got some nice Christmas presents. Clothes and smokes from the folks. My friend, who inexplicably has faith that I'll be a better person one day, got me a Change journal. It has 24 weeks and each week there's reading and daily exercises and stuff etc. And he continues to invite me to NA meetings which I attend occasionally. He also got me some running gear, Asics hat and gloves for the cold weather. I've been out for a few runs and they've been nice. I got him a voucher for a luxury mens clothes shop in my town so I'm hoping I'll get to see him again soon. I'm just not in the right headspace to visit him in Dublin right now.]

I was about 100e over my overdraft limit and the bank have been sending me letters but today I threw in 100e to be swallowed up by the abyss. Trying to be more financially responsible. Giving up smoking for New Years might help with that. Or at least cut down.

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Good morning all sorry relapsed this morning after 9 days sober will get back on track tomorrow seeing as I’ve had a drink tonight. Congrats on all your days sober. Just wish I could stick with it I find it so hard especially when I’m hearing so many voices (psychosis)
Hey Misstqueent. I've had a lot of psychosis over the years. Sorry you're going through that. I don't really have any advice because everyone is different and I'm fortunate I respond to certain meds. I hope you're getting help and things get better. I get drinking over voices. For me, alcohol quietens them a little or makes things more bearable. And it works fast. Sucks about the relapse, been there way too often myself. Hope you don't have much of a hangover and your day 1 goes smoothly.
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Old 12-30-2022, 05:05 AM
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Welcome to the Class Stillsleeping

Together we can stop drinking/drug when alone we struggled.
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Old 12-30-2022, 05:15 AM
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Good morning all. Pledging for today. Day 89.
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Old 12-30-2022, 05:17 AM
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Happy Friday!

My quote for the day was,
”Sell your cleverness, buy bewilderment.” - Rumi

I also like,
”You thought God was an architect,
now you know,
He’s something like a pipe bomb ready to blow. And everything you built that’s all for show goes up in flames.” - Jason Isbell

God definitely blew up my “show” of a life.

What a world of bewildering, shocking, burning beauty and growth and chaos! Today I am grateful for my lovely, grace-filled corner of mess.

Blessings!
-TC
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