24 Hour Recovery Connections Part 471
A 24 Friday for me.
Kenton - you are a jewel in the crown. I think many of us here, probably due in part to addiction, tend to perceive what others think of us as truth, internalize it, assume it defines us and then get stuck. We can't control our negative thoughts happening, but we do have some say about which ones we pay attention to and act on. Take good care of yourself and know that you define your reality, not others.
Weekend here we go!
Kenton - you are a jewel in the crown. I think many of us here, probably due in part to addiction, tend to perceive what others think of us as truth, internalize it, assume it defines us and then get stuck. We can't control our negative thoughts happening, but we do have some say about which ones we pay attention to and act on. Take good care of yourself and know that you define your reality, not others.
Weekend here we go!
♥ This is a list of everyone who posted their commitment to stay sober in the last
24 hours: 9 am EST ~ 8.59 am EST.
It is awesome to have every single one of you here with us! ♥
1newcreation
abcowboy
aussieblue
Awake61
Babs1234
Bailey3
badgerden
bandicoot2
BarbieKen
Bubovski
Canadian Koala
Chaisson
ChloeRose63
Coldfusion
CrossYourHeart
DaneK
Daisybelle
DaisyBelle7
Dee74
Delilah1
dizzybee
Endoftheday
erfra7
Erratic
fishkiller
FormerBeerLover
Gabe1980
gatorman
Gilmer ♥RIP♥
Goat
goose333
Hats
Hevyn
IcedVoVo
jimmyJlover
joandmelandhan
julietUK
Kaneda8888
kenton
Kris47
least
LillianGish
Lostmyoffswitch
lyddie
Mags1
Neoo
Nic233
nmd
Noam19
NoGoingBack
Optimist4ever57
Plenny
PhoenixJ
Pinky1
Purplrks3647
Quincy
quitter62
Rainman1
Ravel
Rose335
Saskia
SendSleep
shortstop81
SnoozyQ
Sober53
soberista
SoberLeigh
Sobertoday54
Soberwolf
stargazer016
Sunflowerlife
tgirl
theVman31
Tictoc
Tinker B
tomls
Treesofgreen
TrueNewGirl
Tynesider22
Upstairs
venuscat
Vinificent
WeaverBird
whopper
wiscsober
Willow68
yukonm
Zanna
zeppodog
Onward together! ♥
♥ thank you dear abcowboy ♥
24 hours: 9 am EST ~ 8.59 am EST.
It is awesome to have every single one of you here with us! ♥
1newcreation
abcowboy
aussieblue
Awake61
Babs1234
Bailey3
badgerden
bandicoot2
BarbieKen
Bubovski
Canadian Koala
Chaisson
ChloeRose63
Coldfusion
CrossYourHeart
DaneK
Daisybelle
DaisyBelle7
Dee74
Delilah1
dizzybee
Endoftheday
erfra7
Erratic
fishkiller
FormerBeerLover
Gabe1980
gatorman
Gilmer ♥RIP♥
Goat
goose333
Hats
Hevyn
IcedVoVo
jimmyJlover
joandmelandhan
julietUK
Kaneda8888
kenton
Kris47
least
LillianGish
Lostmyoffswitch
lyddie
Mags1
Neoo
Nic233
nmd
Noam19
NoGoingBack
Optimist4ever57
Plenny
PhoenixJ
Pinky1
Purplrks3647
Quincy
quitter62
Rainman1
Ravel
Rose335
Saskia
SendSleep
shortstop81
SnoozyQ
Sober53
soberista
SoberLeigh
Sobertoday54
Soberwolf
stargazer016
Sunflowerlife
tgirl
theVman31
Tictoc
Tinker B
tomls
Treesofgreen
TrueNewGirl
Tynesider22
Upstairs
venuscat
Vinificent
WeaverBird
whopper
wiscsober
Willow68
yukonm
Zanna
zeppodog
Onward together! ♥
♥ thank you dear abcowboy ♥
January 24, 2020
DaisyBelle7 ~ 2 weeks! ♥
DreamCatcher17 ~ 2 year & 4 months! ♥
IcedVoVo ~ 2 years & 9 months! ♥
DaisyBelle7 ~ 2 weeks! ♥
DreamCatcher17 ~ 2 year & 4 months! ♥
IcedVoVo ~ 2 years & 9 months! ♥
kenton, thank you for sharing your feelings. Your post brought tears to my eyes because your upbringing was very similar to mine. I could feel what you were feeling through your words. My “I’m not good enough” childhood turned to self-injury (long before it was mainstream), alcohol at 18, many unhealthy relationships, etc. You’re not alone. I so appreciate you sharing, and Dee’s quote... love! “He said that the past cannot win if I decide not to be that person anymore.”
Another 24 for me!
Another 24 for me!
I don't drink, I don't drink, I don't drink....
I might want to drink sometimes but that doesn't matter because I DON'T DRINK!
I do however eat chocolate so I'm going to do that then go to bed.
24 please 💕💕 it's been hard one today xxx
I might want to drink sometimes but that doesn't matter because I DON'T DRINK!
I do however eat chocolate so I'm going to do that then go to bed.
24 please 💕💕 it's been hard one today xxx
(((Gabe))) ❤️
Fridays are hard....I would be telling myself I am not drinking today. End of story. No more pressure than that. And really, that works every day. I have never looked ahead or down the track with this and thought what it would be like to never drink again or any of that....from the beginning it has always been for me: Just for today, I will not drink. And that was doable for me. s xx ❤️
Fridays are hard....I would be telling myself I am not drinking today. End of story. No more pressure than that. And really, that works every day. I have never looked ahead or down the track with this and thought what it would be like to never drink again or any of that....from the beginning it has always been for me: Just for today, I will not drink. And that was doable for me. s xx ❤️
(((Gabe))) ❤️
Fridays are hard....I would be telling myself I am not drinking today. End of story. No more pressure than that. And really, that works every day. I have never looked ahead or down the track with this and thought what it would be like to never drink again or any of that....from the beginning it has always been for me: Just for today, I will not drink. And that was doable for me. s xx ❤️
Fridays are hard....I would be telling myself I am not drinking today. End of story. No more pressure than that. And really, that works every day. I have never looked ahead or down the track with this and thought what it would be like to never drink again or any of that....from the beginning it has always been for me: Just for today, I will not drink. And that was doable for me. s xx ❤️
The weeks continue to grind on—very sad, stressed and exhausted. I ran out of paid time off so my life is work and taking care of very ill parents with my mentally wobbly, sometimes quite abusive, hard-drinking brother. I may just barely be getting through it all but I am...and sober. Feeling so weak and tired but I have the opportunity to rest this evening, and perhaps tomorrow. Been sorting out payroll tax issues but it’s almost sorted. I don’t have to be shouted at tonight—I won’t be abused. Not even sure I’ll pick up the phone. I just want peace after being up for work at 4 am, Peace and rest and supper.
Sometimes it seems like the only bright spot in my life right now is sobriety—but that’s a big one. And there really are many more lights. Grief and exhaustion can obscure. So I’m in the right place. I need to listen and be reminded of positive things. I need a hand up is all.
Thank you Kenton—beautiful post
24 more please, for sure
Xx
Sometimes it seems like the only bright spot in my life right now is sobriety—but that’s a big one. And there really are many more lights. Grief and exhaustion can obscure. So I’m in the right place. I need to listen and be reminded of positive things. I need a hand up is all.
Thank you Kenton—beautiful post
24 more please, for sure
Xx
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24 late-in-the-day hours please.
I like your new Avator, Willow. Enjoy the forest.
Trees - I keep meaning to say how much I sympathise with you on the tyranny of maanging board meetings, taking minutes etc. I did that a lot in my working life and found it a touch thankless to say the least. Hope you got that day off.
Huge congratulations of course to our milestoners. I do love seeing those.
VoVo - Just wanted to say I think you're doing brilliantly against such a lot of odds. You have my admiration.
Kenton - I can't add much to what Bailey and others have said but I'm glad you're back. Your fabulous sense of humour is a real asset to this thread.
I like your new Avator, Willow. Enjoy the forest.
Trees - I keep meaning to say how much I sympathise with you on the tyranny of maanging board meetings, taking minutes etc. I did that a lot in my working life and found it a touch thankless to say the least. Hope you got that day off.
Huge congratulations of course to our milestoners. I do love seeing those.
VoVo - Just wanted to say I think you're doing brilliantly against such a lot of odds. You have my admiration.
Kenton - I can't add much to what Bailey and others have said but I'm glad you're back. Your fabulous sense of humour is a real asset to this thread.
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