Class of March 2013 Part 57
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Peej is right Babs, it's not good to fight it alone, come post here of call your AA friends. What tools are you using? Like Sass, I find playing it forward is a really good one. You've got us Babs.
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Yes, it does help to come here for sure... I just know the outcome and I keep telling myself that....I'm so lucky to have you guys.
Keeping busy helps but, I'm not going to run from it. I'm going to stop it right in
it's tracks.
Babs
Keeping busy helps but, I'm not going to run from it. I'm going to stop it right in
it's tracks.
Babs
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Goll darn it ! I was feeling great---I even went to an AA meeting I had
never been to before last night cause I wanted to support a friend that got her
1 year chip. Anyway -----tonight---Hubby decides to pull a thing that makes me feel like I did something wrong and I get the silent treatment. I'm so sick of his childish ways and of course he had to drink in front of me. I'm sure he thinks well, I'll get her anxious and she will want to drink. Well, quess what? it's not going to work. I came here to put it down in writing to settle myself down. I don't deserve this and I'm not feeling sorry for myself just plain tired of his childish game. there now I already feel better.....I'm going to go to bed and read a book and watch some tv---I hate going to bed this early but, we do have spare bed rooms and I can leave anytime I need to. I'm just going to settle down and not let him get to me. Thanks for listening.
Tomorrow is another day and I will take it one day at a time.
Babs
never been to before last night cause I wanted to support a friend that got her
1 year chip. Anyway -----tonight---Hubby decides to pull a thing that makes me feel like I did something wrong and I get the silent treatment. I'm so sick of his childish ways and of course he had to drink in front of me. I'm sure he thinks well, I'll get her anxious and she will want to drink. Well, quess what? it's not going to work. I came here to put it down in writing to settle myself down. I don't deserve this and I'm not feeling sorry for myself just plain tired of his childish game. there now I already feel better.....I'm going to go to bed and read a book and watch some tv---I hate going to bed this early but, we do have spare bed rooms and I can leave anytime I need to. I'm just going to settle down and not let him get to me. Thanks for listening.
Tomorrow is another day and I will take it one day at a time.
Babs
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Oh gosh, I am so sorry love.
And just for me, the silent treatment stuff needs to be left behind in childhood.
It is not acceptable for anyone to treat their partner in this way....I hope you can rest well and have a much better tomorrow.
♥♥
And just for me, the silent treatment stuff needs to be left behind in childhood.
It is not acceptable for anyone to treat their partner in this way....I hope you can rest well and have a much better tomorrow.
♥♥
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Well done Babs, you respected yourself - you deserve better from hubby. At least by not 'rewarding' his bad behaviour by giving the anticipated response you might change him over time.
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Originally Posted by tootsl1 
Well done Babs, you respected yourself - you deserve better from hubby. At least by not 'rewarding' his bad behaviour by giving the anticipated response you might change him over time.
Gosh I love you toots.
sLove to all of you.
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Well said Toots....yes.. I did stand my ground and I read today what Erfa said...and I need to accept a few ups and downs and put myself first...I didn't drink and I'm glad that I finally see the light....thanks guys...
Babs
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