Class of March 2016 Part 79
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Congratulations, Lillian! One year is phenomenal!
PJ, thank you for sharing your artwork and your journey. You're so strong and such a good person. I'm better just for knowing you.
I hope all went well for Nathan, Bobbie. Can't be easy. We all know that our addictions have consequences for those beyond on but things like this are a stark reminder. I'm glad he's remained sober. He's lucky to have a role model like you.
Just a quick check in to say I'm still here. I'd like to address everyone but am trying to keep it brief. I'm better for knowing all of you and grateful each and every day for you all. Much love to all.
PJ, thank you for sharing your artwork and your journey. You're so strong and such a good person. I'm better just for knowing you.
I hope all went well for Nathan, Bobbie. Can't be easy. We all know that our addictions have consequences for those beyond on but things like this are a stark reminder. I'm glad he's remained sober. He's lucky to have a role model like you.
Just a quick check in to say I'm still here. I'd like to address everyone but am trying to keep it brief. I'm better for knowing all of you and grateful each and every day for you all. Much love to all.
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I was really hoping nobody would ask that. However, when I rejoined SR over three years ago, I pledged to myself and by extension those here, that I would be honest. The answer is simple: not well. I make plans and don't follow through as I should. When I'm not doing what I should I don't like to discuss it simply because I feel I'm wasting your time as well as everyone else's. If I won't listen and do what needs to be done, what's to be gained by posting? Hell, I may have eclipsed in years, my handle, for time being here. You can lead a jackass to water and all that...but I remain a slow learner who somehow can't/won't turn the corner and get to the real business of recovery.
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I was really hoping nobody would ask that.
Its not to demean you, tick you off or make you feel bad about yourself, I promise.
I just want to see you put down the burden thirteenth
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I know that. And I'm fairly sure you know that I know that. You're doing what you can to nudge me in the right direction. I have only gratitude for your patience and understanding. Your willingness to keep trying to help someone who routinely disregards sound advice from those who've been there is like some kind of superpower.
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Join Date: Sep 2013
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Thank you guys. I’m grateful to this class for your support and friendship. 
A year ago I just didn’t feel good. Tired, overweight...not-so-hot mess. I decided to try and quit yet again....and within a week realized there was a lump in my chest. Had to wait until sept 13th to get the test and that’s when the rollarcoaster ride started. Quitting drinking literally saved my life.
And I am reminded my first mammogram is next month. Ugh. Scanxiety!
On the upside, I have curly hair now and it’s kind of cute. Lillian Version 2.0...in more ways than one.
Thank you again for all your support.
A year ago I just didn’t feel good. Tired, overweight...not-so-hot mess. I decided to try and quit yet again....and within a week realized there was a lump in my chest. Had to wait until sept 13th to get the test and that’s when the rollarcoaster ride started. Quitting drinking literally saved my life.
And I am reminded my first mammogram is next month. Ugh. Scanxiety!
On the upside, I have curly hair now and it’s kind of cute. Lillian Version 2.0...in more ways than one.
Thank you again for all your support.
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Join Date: Sep 2013
Location: San Diego, Cali
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Bobbie, I hope whatever should happen for Nathan...happens. Kind thoughts for you.
I need to go find PJ’s art thread. Can’t wait to see it!
13th.....I pray you see the light some day soon. Dee’s right about the burden. That’s exactly what it is. Hugs for you bud.
I need to go find PJ’s art thread. Can’t wait to see it!
13th.....I pray you see the light some day soon. Dee’s right about the burden. That’s exactly what it is. Hugs for you bud.
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B- glad about Nathan, for him- and YOU. Sexist comment 'by the balls?' I am extremely offended by this and intend to launch a global online campaign to stop such offensive things.
VIE! VIE! THE BARBARIANS AREAT THE GATE!!!!
probably huge resentment- I get a slap on the wrist for mentioning bats, but apparently this does not include testicles
13th- keep posting, try to do every day. Sometimes strength is just persistence. I fail more times than I succeed, but I get there and I do not give in to the threat of despair.
KEEP POSTING!!!!
VIE! VIE! THE BARBARIANS AREAT THE GATE!!!!
probably huge resentment- I get a slap on the wrist for mentioning bats, but apparently this does not include testicles
13th- keep posting, try to do every day. Sometimes strength is just persistence. I fail more times than I succeed, but I get there and I do not give in to the threat of despair.
KEEP POSTING!!!!
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That is great news, Bobbieka. Very happy for you and Nathan.
Happy Tuesday everyone. I slept in a little, if you can call 6:00am sleeping in
I have plenty of work to do, but very little motivation. And, I don't know if I mentioned it here, but one of the members of our small department at work decided to leave for a different opportunity. This leaves me with one less person I can delegate things to. Haha.
Be good ...
Happy Tuesday everyone. I slept in a little, if you can call 6:00am sleeping in
I have plenty of work to do, but very little motivation. And, I don't know if I mentioned it here, but one of the members of our small department at work decided to leave for a different opportunity. This leaves me with one less person I can delegate things to. Haha.
Be good ...
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Originally Posted by Thirteenth 
I was really hoping nobody would ask that. However, when I rejoined SR over three years ago, I pledged to myself and by extension those here, that I would be honest. The answer is simple: not well. I make plans and don't follow through as I should. When I'm not doing what I should I don't like to discuss it simply because I feel I'm wasting your time as well as everyone else's. If I won't listen and do what needs to be done, what's to be gained by posting? Hell, I may have eclipsed in years, my handle, for time being here. You can lead a jackass to water and all that...but I remain a slow learner who somehow can't/won't turn the corner and get to the real business of recovery.
She became my sponsor and she was fantastic. A guide, a mentor, a friend.
And over the ensuing years when I could not stay sober, I would call her and she would always be there for me. She told me never to give up, that it takes what it takes.
Whatever it takes to help you get rid of this burden, as Dee said, we will be here.
We are not giving up on you, not ever.
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Originally Posted by PhoenixJ
Sexist comment 'by the balls?' I am extremely offended by this and intend to launch a global online campaign to stop such offensive things.
VIE! VIE! THE BARBARIANS AREAT THE GATE!!!!
[SIZE="1"]probably huge resentment- I get a slap on the wrist for mentioning bats, but apparently this does not include testicles
VIE! VIE! THE BARBARIANS AREAT THE GATE!!!!
[SIZE="1"]probably huge resentment- I get a slap on the wrist for mentioning bats, but apparently this does not include testicles
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Hope the day goes easy, MITA.
13th - it takes what it takes. I hope you can grab on and say this is it. It is enough. Just don't stop trying.
Good morning, Suze.
Hey, BBG!
Purps - have a fantastic day!
Hey, Dee.
Welcome to our home - Canadian Koala!
Lillian - have an awesome day!
Funny - when I mentioned court yesterday, I wasn't really looking for support. Didn't realize I needed it - this has just become so much a part of our lives. Then - when you guys started with the well wishes - it overwhelmed me. You guys are awesome. Thanks so much for your never ending support.
Have the best day, everyone!
13th - it takes what it takes. I hope you can grab on and say this is it. It is enough. Just don't stop trying.
Good morning, Suze.
Hey, BBG!
Purps - have a fantastic day!
Hey, Dee.
Welcome to our home - Canadian Koala!
Lillian - have an awesome day!
Funny - when I mentioned court yesterday, I wasn't really looking for support. Didn't realize I needed it - this has just become so much a part of our lives. Then - when you guys started with the well wishes - it overwhelmed me. You guys are awesome. Thanks so much for your never ending support.
Have the best day, everyone!
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