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Old 05-07-2019, 09:44 PM   #1 (permalink)
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The Gilmerites....in memory of Gilmer Part 2


continues from here:
https://www.soberrecovery.com/forums...gilmer-20.html (The Gilmerites....in memory of Gilmer)

I found a random quote which encapulates Kathy well

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Originally Posted by Gilmer View Post
When I end up with extras, it often gives me a great feeling to give them to a stranger, like to a clothing giveaway. Those are the best, but it’s also nice to put them in a box for the poor or veterans ‘ families. The lowliest looking box, the more joy that will probably come from the unexpected reception of such a lovely shoe.
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I meant to say too - if anyone wants to write a memory post for Gilmer in the Memory Garden Forum, please feel free to do so.

https://www.soberrecovery.com/forums/memory-garden/

Someone can start a thread and anyone else can add to it ...if they like.

I feel as if I've contributed enough threads there for now

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Oh my gosh, I had no idea there was a Memory Garden Forum.....oh......

And thank you dearest D for posting that quote.

And hello lovely Gilmerites.

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Awwww.....how divine.

Chippy is mooshy today. s

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I dreamt of her last night....she was talking to me about plants. Telling me about her one sad pothos, and how she had a "black thumb" where I have a green one. She was telling me this again, and smiling big this time because well, she ended up getting that little plant to thrive, and we both know that.

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That's sweet Vee...I've heard that dreaming of a lost loved one means they were paying you a visit

When I first heard this song it was for an art contest that Shinedown was holding a few months ago....it made me think of Gilmer

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how very special Kathy came to you Suze! I find "visits" like that very comforting.

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Not a day goes by that I don’t think of Kathy - and dearly miss her.
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I was just looking through some threads in another forum and came across a response from Kathy. It kind of took my breath away. I miss her.
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Duffster, that happened to me yesterday too!
I read Kathy’s response in a thread, and it was in her last few months on earth and she was so lovely to the hypothetical question what was being asked. My heart filled with love for her.
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