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Old 01-11-2019, 05:46 AM
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....I have SO MANY posts to respond to that my head is spinning: I am going to need more coffee.

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Old 01-11-2019, 05:50 AM
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Originally Posted by mystified View Post
I turned all the notifications off on my phone because it was beeping or buzzing or otherwise distracting me almost every hour of the day.

This meant I nearly missed my 7th day sober celebration. In 6 hours from the time of posting I will be alcohol free for 7 days and I've barely thought about drinking for most of that 7 days.

I mean, go me, but should I be concerned that it's not on my mind all the time so early into my recovery?

24 more for me please and congratulations to anyone celebrating a milestone today.
But this one is first.

NO!!!!!!!!!!!!

It's fantastic. For me, it's about making the decision from a place very deep inside....and it just....is, all of a sudden. And you become FREE.

Free of the mental obsession and physical compulsion.

It doesn't mean we don't have to keep doing the work, building the tools...but it is a blessing born of your commitment. I truly believe this honey.

And yey you!!!!!!!!!!!!!! ♥♥
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Old 01-11-2019, 05:53 AM
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Originally Posted by joandmelandhan View Post
Good morning all.
Bit nervous for my first trip back to the gym since we got the dog. That's 4 months! I will just have a swim because frankly I'm not fit enough for a proper workout but I am hoping it gives me some motivation to get back there regularly. In those 4 months I have gained about 10 pounds so committing here to lose it again - slowly and steadily with the main focus being on the positive effect of exercise and diet on my mental health.
Lots of love to everyone facing grief, illness and fear today. Sobriety is of course a gift but it can leave us exposed to the raw emotions we blotted out for so long. That "escape" is not an option any more so hopefully our togetherness will help us find a better way. 24 more please
Bump. Because no matter what is going on in my heart and mind that is disquieting, jojo always fixes it. Always.

Love you honey. And enjoy your swim. ♥♥
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Old 01-11-2019, 05:59 AM
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Originally Posted by Dee74 View Post
prayers for your mom Ardy and your BIl Delilah,

Congrats rar and erfra

I was never a pinball kid, guys - too many encyclopedias to read lol

congratulations to everyone recommitting to recovery today and thank you for your posts

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I bet you had every single World Book Encyclopedia including all of the year books like I did....it was such a massive joy. And so sad when my mum wanted to get rid of them....in the end, I couldn't stop her and I couldn't take them (no room) so I managed to talk her into giving them to my/her cousins who couldn't afford a lot for their kids.

Unfortunately, my lovely mum got a little over enthusiastic after that, and gave my cousin all of my children's books for her little girls...errr....but she kind of forgot to ask me. Or tell me beforehand.

I was not happy Jan.

(Aussie ad joke).
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Old 01-11-2019, 06:03 AM
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Originally Posted by Sunflowerlife View Post
7:00 am

The healing circle was nice last night but then I came home and fed my body junk (bread, cheese, chocolates) right before I got into bed. I feel awful this morning. In tears, irritable, tired. It's my husband's birthday and I could barely muster up a hug for him when I saw him.

I can't take these ups and downs anymore.
I am wondering when I am going to take my life to the next level- what am I waiting for? Hasn't this way gotten old already?

I am considering taking a yoga teacher training. Just need to find one that works with my schedule. I think it will change my life. Also going to do my Reiki Master class soon- just need to save up a bit more. But really, I just want to learn to enjoy each day regardless of my feelings and emotions. I'm so tired of allowing them to dictate the outcome of my day.

Here for 24 more hours of freedom from alcohol. Can't wait to be able to stop depending on food for numbing these huge emotions sobriety has allowed me to feel.
Oh love, sending so many hugs. I feel your pain....I know this mad cycle....so the when is NOW.....and I am right with you.

Let's just love ourselves enough to commit. One day at a time.

Now....I DEFINITELY think you should do the yoga training if you can because I think you will be an AMAZING yoga teacher and you will heal yourself. In my humble opinion. LOL.

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to your husband. ♥♥
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Old 01-11-2019, 06:05 AM
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Originally Posted by 1newcreation View Post
Dear V? I was only kidding when said that; I’m sorry Kenton that you too seemed to have taken it personal. Was doing a tongue in cheek response to someone else’s post a page or two earlier. I’m glad to know I’m not the only one that’s faced an issue with Chrome- hit thanks & it brings you to very top of page your in! Hopefully, it’s been resolved for good coz I love reading all postings as I never know what might be a blessing to me or how I could be supportive to another
Thanks for your kind words SL! 24 pls
Mwwwwaaaaaa!

Well, it doesn't hurt me to remember that I have friends who are very important to me and I need to stay in touch.
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Old 01-11-2019, 06:09 AM
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Originally Posted by nmd View Post
No problem. You and everyone else here has always been a big help and sounding board

Anyways, super late checking in tonight, but Im still here just been busy

SR has worked for me. Not having booze around that i wanted to drink worked. Not buying booze for other people (holidays) helps.
Staying away from drinking helped. So did channeling my attention into something positive, exercise, finishing a project.

I've considered meetings but always shy away. A meeting wouldnt hurt, I'd just need to get past the anxiety about it

Just working on making things better a little each day for now. Thanks for being there
Hello.

OK....so.....how about starting a project that you have wanted to get into. I am right with you....personally and professionally. I am WAY behind on every single thing I began last year and I have a long way to go to catch up and really begin my business and making money.

And I have a few big home projects I need to get done....like a month ago.

It always boosts my self-esteem....maybe you will feel a little less shy when you are all proud of yourself and inspired? And then perhaps you can go to a meeting. ♥♥♥
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Old 01-11-2019, 06:13 AM
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Originally Posted by Willow68 View Post
(((((Delilah))))) it does take time.
I’ve just booked in to see a specialist grief counsellor. Four months down the track now. Hopefully she can help me work through my feelings.
So much love and support to you, I know how very tough it is, trying to hold it together for your family, when your heart is breaking ❤️❤️❤️
(((Willow))) ♥♥♥

I am so so glad you have decided to do some grief counselling honey.

I think you will find it very helpful.



Good morning dear vana. ♥♥♥
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Old 01-11-2019, 06:16 AM
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pinball?

nah

Small country towns not do them when I was preteen, then when we moved to the 'big smoke', Galaxians and Space Invaders.
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24 more for me please at 9:17 am.

Have a good day all!
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Old 01-11-2019, 06:21 AM
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Hey all, I've missed a few days check ins as I've been battling fatigue and desperately trying to hustle up some work. Other than that, all is good, and my housemate has just collected two rescue cats, so I'm looking forward to meeting them!

Will try and catch up a bit and read some posts as soon as I have time.

Hey Venus -you are working HARD on the thread today

Love to all x
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Love you Jack.

Cannot wait to see those kitties.
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Old 01-11-2019, 06:24 AM
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Love you Jack.

Cannot wait to see those kitties.

Photos to come :-)
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Old 01-11-2019, 06:25 AM
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Originally Posted by mystified View Post
I turned all the notifications off on my phone because it was beeping or buzzing or otherwise distracting me almost every hour of the day.

This meant I nearly missed my 7th day sober celebration. In 6 hours from the time of posting I will be alcohol free for 7 days and I've barely thought about drinking for most of that 7 days.

I mean, go me, but should I be concerned that it's not on my mind all the time so early into my recovery?

24 more for me please and congratulations to anyone celebrating a milestone today.
Hi Mys. what a great post. Really took me back to this time last year. I was 6 days sober this date 2018, here I am just over a year. You can do it. this site (thread) really kept me going. I loved the fact that all my milestones were noted and celebrated. I am a particular fan of the dancing bananas. Stay close. Well done on one week, stay strong. Blessings.
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Old 01-11-2019, 06:26 AM
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2.30 pm here in the UK. Please count me in for another 24 hours sober and clean.
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Old 01-11-2019, 06:39 AM
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24 more this Friday morning. Here's to continued strength, patience and faith that time will be a healer for everyone, especially those struggling with sadness and loss.

Vibing a peaceful day and weekend ahead to all.
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Struggling today, as I am not working and home alone. But I came here and regained some strength. I can not drink again.
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Old 01-11-2019, 06:48 AM
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well kids and beans the best part of this forum is that when we are all sick with flu and colds we can not give it to each other...aahahahahahahahhah chooooooo

tissue please more tea and aahahahahchooo I am in for another 24 hours.. chooo..
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JulietUK and Mys wow that is great for the both of you .. so proud of you both.. go team go..


Originally Posted by julietUK View Post
Hi Mys. what a great post. Really took me back to this time last year. I was 6 days sober this date 2018, here I am just over a year. You can do it. this site (thread) really kept me going. I loved the fact that all my milestones were noted and celebrated. I am a particular fan of the dancing bananas. Stay close. Well done on one week, stay strong. Blessings.
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