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Old 01-10-2019, 01:17 PM
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I was shocked to discover that I couldn't play table tennis (well) when I got sober.....and the other funny one was pinball....I couldn't work out how on earth to get those flippers moving in unison.....and I was so good at it when I was young..... The skills and co-ordination came back.

And well done you...woo hoo!!!
I on the other hand am a pinball champion , just check under my avatar.
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Old 01-10-2019, 01:20 PM
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hi all I am here. Please God Hear my Prayer...
I am ok.. take care of my Mom in NC please she is sick so bad.
at 89 years of age the damp and cold of NC in that house is just not a good thing.. Please God....


I am in for another 24 hours just ardy
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Old 01-10-2019, 01:25 PM
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Struggling with sadness/depression/grief or something like that yesterday and today, just feeling very flat and down, and missing my Mum but I知 in for 24 please. I know it comes in waves, and I just have to ride it out.
Thanks everyone for being here ❤️
Just love and more love. ❤️❤️
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Old 01-10-2019, 01:26 PM
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Delilah honey....how is your BIL today? ❤️❤️

And prayers for your mum dear ardy. ❤️❤️
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Old 01-10-2019, 01:28 PM
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Struggling with sadness/depression/grief or something like that yesterday and today, just feeling very flat and down, and missing my Mum but I知 in for 24 please. I know it comes in waves, and I just have to ride it out.
Thanks everyone for being here ❤️
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Old 01-10-2019, 01:30 PM
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hi all I am here. Please God Hear my Prayer...
I am ok.. take care of my Mom in NC please she is sick so bad.
at 89 years of age the damp and cold of NC in that house is just not a good thing.. Please God....


I am in for another 24 hours just ardy
(((ardy))) prayers sent.
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Old 01-10-2019, 01:30 PM
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Originally Posted by aussieblue View Post
I on the other hand am a pinball champion , just check under my avatar.
She's a pinball wizard....

We really did grow up in the same way, albeit in different parts of Aus....I imagine you spent some teenage years in pinball parlors in groups, or on a date....oh yeah, that was romantic....oh....and there were often fish and chips involved. Oh yum.

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PS I LOVE the sound of a pinball machine.....Nick's dad bought one and put it in his old room....I want it.
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Old 01-10-2019, 01:32 PM
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Originally Posted by venuscat View Post
She's a pinball wizard....

We really did grow up in the same way, albeit in different parts of Aus....I imagine you spent some teenage years in pinball parlors in groups, or on a date....oh yeah, that was romantic....oh....and there were often fish and chips involved. Oh yum.

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PS I LOVE the sound of a pinball machine.....Nick's dad bought one and put it in his old room....I want it.
I use to spend my bus fair on the pinny's and walk home from school.
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Old 01-10-2019, 01:33 PM
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Ahhhhh.....smiling at you big time.....can't wait until PJ and Kane weigh in.....and Dee as well.... I just told Nick we need that pinball machine when his dad gets sick of it.
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Old 01-10-2019, 01:35 PM
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Struggling with sadness/depression/grief or something like that yesterday and today, just feeling very flat and down, and missing my Mum but I知 in for 24 please. I know it comes in waves, and I just have to ride it out.
Thanks everyone for being here ❤️
Grief is a natural process sweetness - different for everyone. Raw 'feeling' is something we avoided with a passion when drinking...so it can be confronting when it comes in sobriety.

All natural, and not to be avoided (very hard and confronting sometimes).

I still miss my Mum and have a cry, and it's been well over a decade. Sending you big hugs.xx
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Old 01-10-2019, 01:38 PM
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24 more for me please!
Crazy work January seems to be going quite well so far (tax return deadline month). My second sober one and carrying the comfort of sobriety and quiet pride does help a lot. I know I will cope and I will only give as much of myself as is right.
Lots of love to you all ❤❤❤
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Old 01-10-2019, 01:42 PM
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Ahhhhh.....smiling at you big time.....can't wait until PJ and Kane weigh in.....and Dee as well.... I just told Nick we need that pinball machine when his dad gets sick of it.
Glad I could make you smile love.
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Old 01-10-2019, 01:57 PM
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Just found out that (when I asked and I should have remembered) that the pinball machine is Nick's....15th birthday present.
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Old 01-10-2019, 01:59 PM
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Oh wow....CW is here.... how wonderful. ❤️

And hello darling jojo. ❤️
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Old 01-10-2019, 02:00 PM
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Originally Posted by ardy View Post
hi all I am here. Please God Hear my Prayer...
I am ok.. take care of my Mom in NC please she is sick so bad.
at 89 years of age the damp and cold of NC in that house is just not a good thing.. Please God....


I am in for another 24 hours just ardy
Prayers, dear ardy.
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Old 01-10-2019, 02:12 PM
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Originally Posted by Calmerwaters View Post
Grief is a natural process sweetness - different for everyone. Raw 'feeling' is something we avoided with a passion when drinking...so it can be confronting when it comes in sobriety.

All natural, and not to be avoided (very hard and confronting sometimes).

I still miss my Mum and have a cry, and it's been well over a decade. Sending you big hugs.xx
I think I知 not used to feeling anything much. I drank for 35 years, since I was 15. I guess I numbed out all the hard things with alcohol. Now I知 experiencing the hardest thing I致e ever had to deal with, and the intense raw emotion is sometimes so overwhelming. I think after having to suppress my grief the last few weeks of being in ongoing social situations, now means that as I知 alone now, all the pent up grief is pouring out.
And I知 getting a headache. I really need to make myself get up out of bed and make myself a coffee.

Thank you Calmerwaters ❤️
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Old 01-10-2019, 02:13 PM
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Just love and more love. ❤️❤️
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Old 01-10-2019, 02:13 PM
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Old 01-10-2019, 02:14 PM
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Oh wow....CW is here.... how wonderful. ❤️

And hello darling jojo. ❤️
Hi Suze!
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Old 01-10-2019, 02:18 PM
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I'm gonna need another 24!
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