One Year & Over Part 63
non-drinker
Join Date: Jul 2009
Location: Milwaukee, Wisconsin, USA
Posts: 13,841
Andy, my thoughts and prayers are with your family today.
To ALL the overs: don't EVER feel that you cannot tell us how you are feeling, good or bad. It ALWAYS helps to tell someone. If you don't want to share with the group, please feel free to PM me. We're all in this together!
Have a Fantastic Friday!
To ALL the overs: don't EVER feel that you cannot tell us how you are feeling, good or bad. It ALWAYS helps to tell someone. If you don't want to share with the group, please feel free to PM me. We're all in this together!
Have a Fantastic Friday!
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Join Date: May 2012
Location: US East Coast
Posts: 14,286
(((Andy)))! I gathered things were not good when you mentioned that Mrs T had ascites but I didn’t want to say anything until you were ready to tell us. My heart goes out to you, Mrs T and your whole family. Sending many prayers your way 
Member
Join Date: Nov 2012
Location: German Village, Columbus with my love ♥
Posts: 88,496
Originally Posted by Treerat66 
Good morning Overs.
Hugs to all with heating problems.
Communicating when things aren't going well can be a challenge because we don't want to burden our friends with our problems. That's why the Overs don't know Mrs T is not doing so well. The cancer has spread and grown massively, eating is becoming hard for her. I can get her to smile but the smiles are less frequent.
On a brighter note our daughters are off to the big city to meet my sister for a shopping trip. 'Much giggling'
Have a good day everyone.
Hugs to all with heating problems.
Communicating when things aren't going well can be a challenge because we don't want to burden our friends with our problems. That's why the Overs don't know Mrs T is not doing so well. The cancer has spread and grown massively, eating is becoming hard for her. I can get her to smile but the smiles are less frequent.
On a brighter note our daughters are off to the big city to meet my sister for a shopping trip. 'Much giggling'
Have a good day everyone.
Andy love.....I am heartbroken to hear this.....I had a feeling to be honest. This is terrifying for both of you.....and your girls.
Us Feb 10ers are all kinds of tough, and all kinds of miraculous....I was diagnosed with bone cancer that I no longer have. 1998. Miracles happen and new medicines happen and we will just send all of our love and support and strength.
With you love.
♥♥
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Join Date: Jan 2013
Location: Ashburn, VA
Posts: 30,196
I am so terribly sorry, Andy. You have been such a supportive husband--I'm sure you have been and still are a great comfort and encouragement through all the ups and downs.
I am praying for peace in the hearts of your entire family.
I am praying for peace in the hearts of your entire family.
Do your best
Join Date: Aug 2014
Posts: 67,047
Love to you & yours Andy we were told my mil had days last week but somehow still with us through her strenght mrs sw tells me she feels dead inside and she cant remember when her mum was well i replied i do since im sober il remember everything plus with photos and video it might help her grieve
Cancer is beyond cruel and want you to know youl never be alone brother i might not log in as much but i love you all the same
Your doing amazing by her Andy xxx
Cancer is beyond cruel and want you to know youl never be alone brother i might not log in as much but i love you all the same
Your doing amazing by her Andy xxx
toots, Andy and everyone xx
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Join Date: Oct 2010
Location: Colorado Springs, Colorado
Posts: 7,583
Andy,
We knew, but it is your news to confirm. How'd the game go for you daughter?
Dee,
Everything is back to normal in the PM page. The folder controls are duplicates at the top with two drop downs to do the same thing. Before I think it was one.
We are now active in a social group revolving around one of the forbidden subjects here. But me and my SH (Significant Harassment for the new folks) have been going out to brunches on the weekends, and last night went for comedy at a restaurant. There were six comedians that ranged from bombing to so hilarious my fave hurt from belly laughing! The food was very good. I had giant bone in pork shank that stood up 8 inches in the plate with Bok Choi and a snack board with grapes smoked cheeses, Prosciutto ham strips. Everyone was drinking wine and I ordered the hard stuff, hi test Coke with full sugar. None of that pansy Diet coke for me when I'm out. I like to party!
Tomorrow they are all, headed down to SciPort to repair and clean up the exhibits so they can reopen. It's hands on science learning center for kids.
Then I join up with group for our weekly meeting, and from 3-7 we will be at a fete with food and wines, craft beers, hard liquor, soft drinks all supplied by local vendors and all you can eat and drinks are included in the ticket price. So I'll be hitting the hard stuff, full sugar two days in a row. I don't want to get hooked on Coca-Cola so I'll only have a few full sugar cokes. Tomorrow night we will watch a movie or two like fat ticks! Who needs booze? Yes my wife still drinks and smokes. Not even a thought of wanting either. I can't even remember what it felt like eight years ago just before I quit. (Sep 21, 2010)
Everyone have a fine Sunday, wherever you spend it, remember how dear time is, so spend it lavishly with those you love.
We knew, but it is your news to confirm. How'd the game go for you daughter?
Dee,
Everything is back to normal in the PM page. The folder controls are duplicates at the top with two drop downs to do the same thing. Before I think it was one.
We are now active in a social group revolving around one of the forbidden subjects here. But me and my SH (Significant Harassment for the new folks) have been going out to brunches on the weekends, and last night went for comedy at a restaurant. There were six comedians that ranged from bombing to so hilarious my fave hurt from belly laughing! The food was very good. I had giant bone in pork shank that stood up 8 inches in the plate with Bok Choi and a snack board with grapes smoked cheeses, Prosciutto ham strips. Everyone was drinking wine and I ordered the hard stuff, hi test Coke with full sugar. None of that pansy Diet coke for me when I'm out. I like to party!
Tomorrow they are all, headed down to SciPort to repair and clean up the exhibits so they can reopen. It's hands on science learning center for kids.
Then I join up with group for our weekly meeting, and from 3-7 we will be at a fete with food and wines, craft beers, hard liquor, soft drinks all supplied by local vendors and all you can eat and drinks are included in the ticket price. So I'll be hitting the hard stuff, full sugar two days in a row. I don't want to get hooked on Coca-Cola so I'll only have a few full sugar cokes. Tomorrow night we will watch a movie or two like fat ticks! Who needs booze? Yes my wife still drinks and smokes. Not even a thought of wanting either. I can't even remember what it felt like eight years ago just before I quit. (Sep 21, 2010)
Everyone have a fine Sunday, wherever you spend it, remember how dear time is, so spend it lavishly with those you love.
Do your best
Join Date: Aug 2014
Posts: 67,047
Didnt want to post this in the middle of the night but around midnight last night mrs sw mum breathed her last & has now passed on - i was the last one to leave around 5am and just waiting on the water to heat up so i can have a bath and get down there
Im really at peace with mil being in no more pain mrs sw isnt taking it well at all completely calm i think obvious shock
Im thinking in a week or 3 i might bring the pooch to stay with them to help with the passing
Sorry guys x
Im really at peace with mil being in no more pain mrs sw isnt taking it well at all completely calm i think obvious shock
Im thinking in a week or 3 i might bring the pooch to stay with them to help with the passing
Sorry guys x
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