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Old 04-08-2017, 06:20 PM
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I don't know where to write this .
I hurt my best friend ( she) her feelings by saying that she didn't care about our friendship, I'm dating a woman that I don't want to date, she is good in all areas but it is no for me but help with with some finances I pay her back.now I feel obligated to dated her. Back to my best friend she is not answering my text or receiving my calls like that I can make amends, I left word that Monday I will show up at her work to do that at the end of her shift. I'm going back at my country in may for a week and I'm fearful about I don't talk to one of my brothers went he was here he try to molest one of my daughters. I'm not happy with myself I'm angry. And I feel like going back to my old life I live alone now , I don't think I will hurt any body with my actions.
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Old 04-08-2017, 06:40 PM
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Support to you efra. Do not drink. Keep posting.
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Old 04-08-2017, 06:49 PM
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You will hurt yourself dearest erfra, and we all care about you very much.

Please don't drink love.
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Old 04-08-2017, 06:57 PM
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My friend answered back doesn't want me to came to her work, the friendships is over .
I really want a ******* drink so ******* bad.
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Old 04-08-2017, 06:58 PM
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I am glad that I you have confided in us, dear erfra.

You are doing your best to make amends to your friend, erfra. I think that she will accept your apology when she calms down and realizes that you are sincere.

That is a difficult situation with the woman you are dating but dating someone because you feel obligated doesn't seem fair to either one of you. I hope that you can find a good way to set your relationship straight with a gentle honesty.

What your brother attempted with your daughter is wrong. What a horrible thing,and I can only imagine how upset you must be. Molestations and attempted molestations are best left to the authorities. I hope that you don't endanger or compromise your own freedom by taking the matter into your own hands.

Most importantly, I hope that you can find peace in your heart and soul.

And above all, please don't drink, dear erfra. It will only hurt you and endanger all that you have worked for in sobriety.
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Old 04-08-2017, 07:00 PM
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Originally Posted by erfra7 View Post
My friend answered back doesn't want me to came to her work, the friendships is over .
I really want a ******* drink so ******* bad.
Let her calm down, erfra. Please don't drink.
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Old 04-08-2017, 07:06 PM
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I'm 4 hours north of home in a motel, sober, and eating a cupcake. I had a good visit with my old friend and am now part of the way home. . Great weather, too.

Getting sleepy, so I'll see you in the morning, or after I get home.

24 more please.

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Old 04-08-2017, 07:09 PM
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Originally Posted by RedBerryJuniper View Post
I'm 4 hours north of home in a motel, sober, and eating a cupcake. I had a good visit with my old friend and am now part of the way home. . Great weather, too.

Getting sleepy, so I'll see you in the morning, or after I get home.

24 more please.

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Sweet dreams, sweet Red.

And safe travels tomorrow.
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Old 04-08-2017, 07:28 PM
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Day 10 -- 7:28pm. I'm ready for another 1,440 minutes.
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Old 04-08-2017, 07:30 PM
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Originally Posted by RyGuy83 View Post
Day 10 -- 7:28pm. I'm ready for another 1,440 minutes.
So am I, RyGuy; let's go for it
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Old 04-08-2017, 07:36 PM
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22:34 EDT and another 24 for me!
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Old 04-08-2017, 07:37 PM
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Originally Posted by Vinificent View Post
22:34 EDT and another 24 for me!
SOber SaturdayS are Sensational!
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Sensational, indeed.
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Old 04-08-2017, 07:51 PM
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Old 04-08-2017, 07:53 PM
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Goat is here, drinking some very nice tea
You are quite the interesting Goat, Goat
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Old 04-08-2017, 07:53 PM
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Originally Posted by erfra7 View Post
My friend answered back doesn't want me to came to her work, the friendships is over .
I really want a ******* drink so ******* bad.
I'm so so sorry love....that is really hard stuff I know.
But a drink will most definitely make it worse.
Please lean on us love. We car so much.
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Goodnight, all.

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Old 04-08-2017, 07:54 PM
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Good morning, dear Aussies.

Have a lovely day!
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Old 04-08-2017, 07:55 PM
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Originally Posted by RedBerryJuniper View Post
I'm 4 hours north of home in a motel, sober, and eating a cupcake. I had a good visit with my old friend and am now part of the way home. . Great weather, too.

Getting sleepy, so I'll see you in the morning, or after I get home.

24 more please.

Love

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Drinking earl grey tea here and eating (Australian) chocolate teddy bear biscuits.

Love you Red.
Safe travels home.
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Old 04-08-2017, 07:56 PM
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Day 10 -- 7:28pm. I'm ready for another 1,440 minutes.
Day 10 is absolutely awesome RyGuy ~ so glad to see you again tonight.
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Old 04-08-2017, 07:57 PM
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Originally Posted by erfra7 View Post
My friend answered back doesn't want me to came to her work, the friendships is over .
I really want a ******* drink so ******* bad.
You definitely made the right move coming here and telling us how you're feeling... Just remember -- there is no problem alcohol can't make worse.
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