24 Hour Recovery Connections Part 214
Member
Join Date: Dec 2016
Location: Missouri, USA
Posts: 890
In for the subscription. Pretty rough the last few days. My wife has been a real bear and I am just getting tired of it. Quit drinking, work pretty hard around the house, hardly set around doing nothing. Seems I can't say anything anymore without a ****** response. I can't win. 14 years together and not sure if we are going to survive.
Have been thinking real hard about abandoning this sobriety thing and not even sure I want talked out of it anymore. Just trying to be honest!
You all are GREAT!
Have been thinking real hard about abandoning this sobriety thing and not even sure I want talked out of it anymore. Just trying to be honest!
You all are GREAT!
Member
Join Date: Dec 2012
Location: Melbourne Australia.
Posts: 3,748
Originally Posted by quitter62 
In for the subscription. Pretty rough the last few days. My wife has been a real bear and I am just getting tired of it. Quit drinking, work pretty hard around the house, hardly set around doing nothing. Seems I can't say anything anymore without a ****** response. I can't win. 14 years together and not sure if we are going to survive.
Have been thinking real hard about abandoning this sobriety thing and not even sure I want talked out of it anymore. Just trying to be honest!
You all are GREAT!
Have been thinking real hard about abandoning this sobriety thing and not even sure I want talked out of it anymore. Just trying to be honest!
You all are GREAT!
It suceededed in quickly making the whole deal so much worse.
Think carefully before any too rash decisions.
orangutan
Join Date: Feb 2011
Posts: 5,970
Originally Posted by quitter62
In for the subscription. Pretty rough the last few days. My wife has been a real bear and I am just getting tired of it. Quit drinking, work pretty hard around the house, hardly set around doing nothing. Seems I can't say anything anymore without a ****** response. I can't win. 14 years together and not sure if we are going to survive.
Have been thinking real hard about abandoning this sobriety thing and not even sure I want talked out of it anymore. Just trying to be honest!
You all are GREAT!
Have been thinking real hard about abandoning this sobriety thing and not even sure I want talked out of it anymore. Just trying to be honest!
You all are GREAT!
Sending strength your way.
Member
Join Date: Nov 2012
Location: German Village, Columbus with my love ♥
Posts: 88,508
Originally Posted by quitter62
In for the subscription. Pretty rough the last few days. My wife has been a real bear and I am just getting tired of it. Quit drinking, work pretty hard around the house, hardly set around doing nothing. Seems I can't say anything anymore without a ****** response. I can't win. 14 years together and not sure if we are going to survive.
Have been thinking real hard about abandoning this sobriety thing and not even sure I want talked out of it anymore. Just trying to be honest!
You all are GREAT!
Have been thinking real hard about abandoning this sobriety thing and not even sure I want talked out of it anymore. Just trying to be honest!
You all are GREAT!
I'm thinking your wife may be struggling a little without the support you have here, and have chosen for yourself.
From what you said, it sounds like she is not open to face to face support groups....perhaps you might like to go to an Alanon meeting.
A lot of folks there deal with this all of the time, and you might find some very specific support and advice.
Just a thought....no matter what, you have us. Always. We are here for you. So much love.
♥As for letting your sobriety go ~ I don't think that's what you want.
♥♥
Member
Join Date: Nov 2012
Location: German Village, Columbus with my love ♥
Posts: 88,508
Originally Posted by Bubovski
Sobriety one day at a time makes marevellous sense.....
Blue days, if not renewed days must be well endured days~~~
Blue days, if not renewed days must be well endured days~~~
♥
Member
Join Date: Dec 2016
Location: Missouri, USA
Posts: 890
Well, I am here in the parking lot. Just got done with a 40 minute phone conversation with my wife. We made progress I suppose. She did talk me down from going inside to buy that beer. I am back to my senses and heading home. Sorry for posting that moment of weakness but thanks for being there SR!
Sometimes life just SUCKS!
Sometimes life just SUCKS!
Member
Join Date: Nov 2012
Location: German Village, Columbus with my love ♥
Posts: 88,508
Originally Posted by quitter62
Well, I am here in the parking lot. Just got done with a 40 minute phone conversation with my wife. We made progress I suppose. She did talk me down from going inside to buy that beer. I am back to my senses and heading home. Sorry for posting that moment of weakness but thanks for being there SR!
Sometimes life just SUCKS!
Sometimes life just SUCKS!
We are all here for each other, and being honest about what's going on is always a good thing.
So glad you got through that.
More love. ♥
Velveteen Rabbit
Join Date: Sep 2013
Location: San Diego, Cali
Posts: 2,661
Hang in there Quitter. Every day feels different. That's change and it's uncomfortable and messy sometimes. Breaking free though, is so much better in the end.
Another 24 hours please....I'd like to see tomorrow night's moon and look back on a lovely day.
It's....6:55 pm here in San Diego, California.
Love to all ~
Lillian
Another 24 hours please....I'd like to see tomorrow night's moon and look back on a lovely day.
It's....6:55 pm here in San Diego, California.
Love to all ~
Lillian
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