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Old 11-15-2016, 10:51 AM
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That's a great achievement Bobbieka, thank you for your input! It's always good to get an extra dose of inspiration :-)
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Old 11-15-2016, 10:54 AM
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The podcast is called "Health Bridge" and the show was from October 27th- the guest's name is Dr. Rajiv Parti and he has a book coming out called "Dying to Wake Up." I haven't taken a look at his website but I'm sure it's a good one. I love this stuff too- really puts life into perspective.
Actually the book was published in August! And it has gotten great reviews. I might have to check it out...I listened to the podcast, and wow, fantastic stuff!
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Old 11-15-2016, 11:16 AM
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My AV is VERY vocal this evening about wanting 4 cans of lager!

I need to go to the shop for a couple of ingredients to go with my tea but I think I will just have to make do with what I have. I've found it tends to pipe down once I have fed my face!
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Old 11-15-2016, 12:14 PM
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Just finished reading everyone's posts and feeling a bit overwhelmed by the magnitude. I can relate to you all, and there I was thinking that I was the only woman/person who did the things that I have done. Being a woman with a major drinking problem is not a good look, not a good look for anyone really. Something about the "lush", idk.

Will go have brekky and a shower before returning, more able to contribute. I am still depressed so it really is baby steps.

Hey Emzeh, tell your AV to shut its bloody face already those 4 lagers are a complete illusion, designed to bring you down by your own hand. It's the same for me, and I am so sick of self destructing.

Poached eggs and a shower, sound OK?
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Old 11-15-2016, 12:20 PM
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Ok, So today is my first day. Sick of this. Don't want to do this anymore. Feeling really down. So annoyed with myself. Feeling disappointed in myself. Also afraid in case I get withdrawal symptoms. How do I do this?
Hi Kimmy, we have all felt the same at some point. Advice: expect withdrawals, expect to feel crappy, grin and bare it until it's over. If you try to drink the crappyness away what happens? You feel crappier!!

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Old 11-15-2016, 12:22 PM
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Sounds tasty to me, enjoy :-)
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Emzeh, don't do it. You will thank yourself in the morning. X
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Old 11-15-2016, 12:26 PM
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Thanks Kimmy, I feel I have won the argument in my head this time, and hopefully all future times of course. I have made a post in the main forum to get some tips and tricks on how to battle a particular hurdle for me - it really does help throwing everything out of your mind and into writing

I hope you are doing okay today :-)
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Old 11-15-2016, 12:31 PM
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Thank God! I woke up sober again this morning. It has been awhile since I have gone this long without a drink! 11 days today :-) My addictive brain is already telling me I could have a drink or two and be fine. It always happens around day 10-2 weeks. But I know that it isn't true this time! I can not have a drink ever again! So now it is trying to figure out my plan for when these thoughts creep in my head.

Congrats on day 8 Illuminate! Congrats on day 9 Micah and ingeborg! And everyone else who made it one more day without a drink!


Vegit, hang in there! Your sobriety is #1 right now!

Good luck on the job hunt Truthbetold and congrats on getting past the 2 week mark, I can't wait to get past 2 weeks.

Kimmy-- Welcome!!! It is seriously one day at a time, one hour at a time, and even one minute at a time. I like to write in my journal, or READ my journal when I get the cravings. For about 2 years now, I have only written in my journal on the day after a major binge, so I can go back and read all the things I'm forgetting when I want to drink. Have you tried an AA meeting? I know the feeling about not sleeping too, I finally got a good night sleep on day 8 and have slept great the past 3 nights. Hang in there and stay close! Post away!!! We will be here.

I am rooting for each and everyone of you (and me) for another 24 hours sober. Have a wonderful day/evening!!
I am not much of a journal writer but I read back on my posts in here. I have even copied and posted them to a word document so that I don't forget the desperation I was in.
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Old 11-15-2016, 12:37 PM
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Originally Posted by Emzeh View Post
My AV is VERY vocal this evening about wanting 4 cans of lager!

I need to go to the shop for a couple of ingredients to go with my tea but I think I will just have to make do with what I have. I've found it tends to pipe down once I have fed my face!
Yes make do. I have had to do that a couple of times as I wasn't totally positive that my need to go to the shop wasn't my AV trying to rope me in.
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Old 11-15-2016, 12:42 PM
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Originally Posted by Steely View Post
Just finished reading everyone's posts and feeling a bit overwhelmed by the magnitude. I can relate to you all, and there I was thinking that I was the only woman/person who did the things that I have done. Being a woman with a major drinking problem is not a good look, not a good look for anyone really. Something about the "lush", idk.

Will go have brekky and a shower before returning, more able to contribute. I am still depressed so it really is baby steps.

Hey Emzeh, tell your AV to shut its bloody face already those 4 lagers are a complete illusion, designed to bring you down by your own hand. It's the same for me, and I am so sick of self destructing.

Poached eggs and a shower, sound OK?
Sounds good steely. I'm sorry you're feeling depressed. I feel that way a lot to. I have been going for long walks. Sometimes it takes me til the day is half over to get out and do it but when I do I always wish I'd done it earlier. It does wonders. (Gives me an appetite too as I'm not a really big eater and sometimes I forget my body needs food to feel ok)
Anyway I digress go for a walk. Xx
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Old 11-15-2016, 12:43 PM
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Yes make do. I have had to do that a couple of times as I wasn't totally positive that my need to go to the shop wasn't my AV trying to rope me in.
Mine absolutely was and I know it, a particularly telling factor is that I 'needed' some peppers...and my local shop certainly isn't known for the freshness of its vegetables...!
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Old 11-15-2016, 01:11 PM
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Thanks Mira.

I WILL try to go for a walk today. So many people recommend it, but for some reason I exclude myself from the good stuff.

I'll pick up the baton and go watch the birdies and hope I see a Kookaburra.

I have the startle response of a gnat at the moment. I will never drink again.
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Old 11-15-2016, 01:18 PM
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That would be awesome if you saw a kook!! We don't get them around here. Mag goes maggies, lorekeets, rosellas and galahs though. Galahs are really good for a laugh too. So cute, a lot of personality.
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Old 11-15-2016, 01:20 PM
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But yeah I know it's really hard when you're feeling bad but I really recommend a walk everyday.
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Old 11-15-2016, 01:21 PM
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...I'm from the UK...we have plenty of pigeons? Haha, nothing quite as exciting as you folks!
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Old 11-15-2016, 01:22 PM
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In my first post on here I think I mentioned that I was walking and had to keep telling myself don't think just move. Try that if your mind starts to wonder into negetive stuff.
Let me know how it goes.
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Old 11-15-2016, 01:23 PM
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...I'm from the UK...we have plenty of pigeons? Haha, nothing quite as exciting as you folks!
Ah but you get to sing the Mary poppins feed the bird song!!
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Old 11-15-2016, 01:25 PM
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Ah but you get to sing the Mary poppins feed the bird song!!
I guess the most amusing part of that is that on my worst days I probably looked like the woman who was feeding the birds!
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Old 11-15-2016, 02:10 PM
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I guess put me in this class. I'm taking another swing at this sober thing. This time I have some medical inspiration. My blood pressure is out of control. I think I need to start treating my body better. Today marks 5 days sober.
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