Class of February 2016 Support Thread Part 7
Auggie, the EXACT SAME THING happened to me! He even snuck into my parents' basement to read older journals once he was done with the recent ones! Very sick relationship. I didn't write in a journal for 18 years after that.
Like you I now have someone I trust. Just wanted to share that I write every day in a journal now, and that has helped my recovery probably more than anything else. Go ahead! It's such a relief.
Like you I now have someone I trust. Just wanted to share that I write every day in a journal now, and that has helped my recovery probably more than anything else. Go ahead! It's such a relief.
Auggie, the EXACT SAME THING happened to me! He even snuck into my parents' basement to read older journals once he was done with the recent ones! Very sick relationship. I didn't write in a journal for 18 years after that.
Like you I now have someone I trust. Just wanted to share that I write every day in a journal now, and that has helped my recovery probably more than anything else. Go ahead! It's such a relief.
Like you I now have someone I trust. Just wanted to share that I write every day in a journal now, and that has helped my recovery probably more than anything else. Go ahead! It's such a relief.
If push comes to shove, act like you matter even if you might not quite believe that today?
should be your local time (i.e. the time you posted that post). For you I assume thats Greenwich Mean Time?
If not there's instructions on how to set the right time for your timezone here
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Thanks, y'all. I'm going to take a break for a bit. I swore I'd never become addicted to online sites, and yet here I am. I need to be a better source of inspiration for my son.
Right, I mean, don't go out to bars. I just mean that there's booze ads everywhere, booze in the stores, and unless you live in a cave, booze at social occasions. I mentioned the 10k thing because I didn't expect my friends to order drinks at 11 a.m. on a Sunday morning. I wasn't prepared for that. Even back in October I was tapering down, so I said no thanks without much problem, but still, I can tell it's going to be a lifelong struggle.
I needed to do that. I needed to put clear distance between the old me I had been and the new me I wanted to become.
I had no sense of confidence I'd be ok around booze in the beginning. Over time I gained those sober muscles and it was fine but I still think that initial period was a great investment in my future.
I didn't just sit at home, I did other things - coffee dates, movies, walks in the park, hobbies, interests. It was a nice time
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Thanks to everyone for the kind words.
I'm going to be away for a day or so now. If anyone wants to ask me anything just PM me.
I wish all of you a happy and sober couple of days.
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I'm going to be away for a day or so now. If anyone wants to ask me anything just PM me.
I wish all of you a happy and sober couple of days.
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Thanks to everyone for the warm welcome. And thanks to the familiar names.
I really do think this time is it for me. When I am honest, over the years on SR, I never REALLY believed that I would not be able to drink in moderation one day. Now, 4 years after I started the real fight (I almost had one year at a point), I have learned that this has got to be my life.
I've been beating myself up a little today about regrets regrets and why I hit myself against a wall so many times. I could write a book on how to quit drinking, but I never wanted to apply it to myself. This time I know. It finally sank in.
What I CAN'T do anything about is the alcohol I drank from Leap Year day backward. What I CAN do something about is the rest of my life.
Thanks everyone. Great to be back. Look forward to meeting some of you and reconnecting with some old comrades.
Best,
Lee
I really do think this time is it for me. When I am honest, over the years on SR, I never REALLY believed that I would not be able to drink in moderation one day. Now, 4 years after I started the real fight (I almost had one year at a point), I have learned that this has got to be my life.
I've been beating myself up a little today about regrets regrets and why I hit myself against a wall so many times. I could write a book on how to quit drinking, but I never wanted to apply it to myself. This time I know. It finally sank in.
What I CAN'T do anything about is the alcohol I drank from Leap Year day backward. What I CAN do something about is the rest of my life.
Thanks everyone. Great to be back. Look forward to meeting some of you and reconnecting with some old comrades.
Best,
Lee
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Glad you're here Lee, we all need all the help we can get. I'm on 13 days now, nearly cracked today/last night but the tsunami passed for now and I'm still here. I'm pretty terrified at the thought of drinking again, of where it would lead...
Peekaboo!
Hey. Just me...sorry it's been so long. I messed up after my "Quit-date" & felt ashamed of my relapse...BUT: the ever-so-illusive 29th of February became my 1st day sober...so I'm practically 1 week in. The hard part (for me) is over. I was even strong enough to pass up cocktails my friend brought to my house last night. I feel good... But I'm eating a lot:/ i feel bad that I can't keep up with everyone 's stories since I'm so busy ! I'm reading some but can't always reciprocate a thought or response. Just thought I would check in since I kinda fell of the face of the earth....I'm hear to listen and cheer you on!
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Join Date: Mar 2012
Location: New England
Posts: 1,067
Hey. Just me...sorry it's been so long. I messed up after my "Quit-date" & felt ashamed of my relapse...BUT: the ever-so-illusive 29th of February became my 1st day sober...so I'm practically 1 week in. The hard part (for me) is over. I was even strong enough to pass up cocktails my friend brought to my house last night. I feel good... But I'm eating a lot:/ i feel bad that I can't keep up with everyone 's stories since I'm so busy ! I'm reading some but can't always reciprocate a thought or response. Just thought I would check in since I kinda fell of the face of the earth....I'm hear to listen and cheer you on!
Mm Auggie Chile Rellenos r a fave of mine
Welcome back Clownbaby
Knb I've missed posts because as I am writing up mine so are other people.. And theirs are done before mine... And then I usuaLly proceed reading posts under mine not realizing some new ones are on top of mine did I ramble much? Haha hope that made sense.
Welcome back Clownbaby
Knb I've missed posts because as I am writing up mine so are other people.. And theirs are done before mine... And then I usuaLly proceed reading posts under mine not realizing some new ones are on top of mine did I ramble much? Haha hope that made sense.
Good on you, OOTT. I haven't had a DUI yet either, but I was still thrown in the slammer, on my son's 11th birthday. There, I said it.
Hope to feel some relief for having admitted it, rather than anguish. I just wish the cops had taken me to detox, instead.
I love me some cops [USA slang, sorry to the Limey grammarians ]; used to give them $$ donations. No more.
Hope to feel some relief for having admitted it, rather than anguish. I just wish the cops had taken me to detox, instead.
I love me some cops [USA slang, sorry to the Limey grammarians ]; used to give them $$ donations. No more.
I ran like hell a few times and escaped. What an idiot I was.
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