Class of July 2013 Part 26
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Originally Posted by Croissant 
Leshar, for now, I'd treat it just like any friendship starting to bloom, male or female....and see how it goes.
Like you, I'm feeling a real gap in that area of my life, which I've mentioned before. Sometimes I have to be on guard that I don't project all the feelings I "want" to have onto someone who potentially is unsuitable to me. (although sometimes it feels like just a living, breathing person would do, lol!)
Treat it for what it is now...a nice social connection- the rest will come if the feeling is mutual. Hard not to overthink it, for sure!
Hey, sooooo awesome on the skating too...I'm definitely not that brave!
Like you, I'm feeling a real gap in that area of my life, which I've mentioned before. Sometimes I have to be on guard that I don't project all the feelings I "want" to have onto someone who potentially is unsuitable to me. (although sometimes it feels like just a living, breathing person would do, lol!)
Treat it for what it is now...a nice social connection- the rest will come if the feeling is mutual. Hard not to overthink it, for sure!
Hey, sooooo awesome on the skating too...I'm definitely not that brave!
But seriously, I couldn't agree more with Crois' post Leshar.
As far as I'm concerned, there is nothing better than building a friendship. It can be wonderful in it's own right, or if it leads to more, then you have a good base for a relationship.
Nothing wrong with emailing to say Happy Christmas, and just let it build naturally.
Just my thoughts...
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I'm with Crois Leshar...just let this be what it is for now...a good friendship can be invaluable.
If it develops into something else organically, that's fine - but I'd just take it slow?
Glad the bottles are gone Snooz.
D
If it develops into something else organically, that's fine - but I'd just take it slow?
Glad the bottles are gone Snooz.
D
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Originally Posted by Leshar
So, if he doesn't email me, should I sort of casually email him perhaps after Christmas when all the hoopla has died down? It didn't help that I was in my gym gear, totally without makeup, not even a bit of lippy.
But he just seemed so nice and it was great to be able to talk about our shared love of acting.
Goodness, I think I've gone on! Bottom line, how do I know if he was just being friendly, or if he "liked" me. Thanks for putting up with me.
But he just seemed so nice and it was great to be able to talk about our shared love of acting.
Goodness, I think I've gone on! Bottom line, how do I know if he was just being friendly, or if he "liked" me. Thanks for putting up with me.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uqv5b0UjR4g
Don't rush in. I think he will send you an email. Probably thinking about you right now. Even if he became "just" a friend. It's always good to have one more.
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Hi everybody,
Just hosted a trim a tree party today at my house.
We had a large roast beef with all the fixings. We are having some unusually warm weather for mid-December.
Ever have ginger snaps with sweet pumpkin sauce for dessert?
Cheese cake......yikes,i'm going to get so fat.
Just hosted a trim a tree party today at my house.
We had a large roast beef with all the fixings. We are having some unusually warm weather for mid-December.
Ever have ginger snaps with sweet pumpkin sauce for dessert?
Cheese cake......yikes,i'm going to get so fat.
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Funny Bob, we are having unusually cool weather here. And when it's like this, I worry we are going to get a scorcher for Christmas.
It's unbelievably cool, almost Spring-like weather, instead of Summer.
It's unbelievably cool, almost Spring-like weather, instead of Summer.
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Omg vinegar **** , you got an email already :-) this guy is keen on you .
I would be sooooo thrilled if you got a thing going with Mark Leshar. Sometimes we have to take risks & those that fall behind , get left behind. Let him know you like him xxxx
We all have different opinions on this , but times have changed, if you want happiness you need to go out and grab it with two hands if it comes your way.
Nab him ..then take it slowly :-)
️Xxx love you girl , I'm so proud of you ️xxx
I would be sooooo thrilled if you got a thing going with Mark Leshar. Sometimes we have to take risks & those that fall behind , get left behind. Let him know you like him xxxx
We all have different opinions on this , but times have changed, if you want happiness you need to go out and grab it with two hands if it comes your way.
Nab him ..then take it slowly :-)
️Xxx love you girl , I'm so proud of you ️xxx
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That's a brave decision love, and I really think it is wise.
This is tough ~ the cravings can be very hard to ignore, and getting some help is a really good move.
Whatever you need, just yell, and we will help you. ♥
This is tough ~ the cravings can be very hard to ignore, and getting some help is a really good move.
Whatever you need, just yell, and we will help you.
♥
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Originally Posted by SnoozyQ
I'm going back to rehab guys , it's needed :-(
I like sober Snoozy best.
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Originally Posted by Croissant
I've been waiting quietly these past few days to see what the plan was, Snoozy. Please do what you have to do, follow through, even though I'm sure every part of your being is screaming no. Please don't give your AV any more power. It's owning you and you are not yourself.
I like sober Snoozy best.
I like sober Snoozy best.
Thanks my darling Crois xx
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