Class of July 2013 Part 21
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I'm up,coffee in hand, and in the screen house with Leah. It's a lovely morning with a sunny,light breeze day ahead.
I'll see if the card is still in the camera and I can download some on my laptop.
Snoozy, post all you want,hun.
This class used to get slow on occasion. So happy that there's lots of reading these days. Makes me proud to be a member of this class.
I'll see if the card is still in the camera and I can download some on my laptop.
Snoozy, post all you want,hun.
This class used to get slow on occasion. So happy that there's lots of reading these days. Makes me proud to be a member of this class.
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You all make me laugh. We have such a great group here and I am just so grateful to still be a part of it.
One thing I love about sobriety is how much more I enjoy food. When I have had a few drinks I lose my appetite and don't even want to eat. I am looking forward to a good meal and yummy dessert tonight It does make me a little sad that we can't enjoy a glass of champagne or bottle of wine together but hey, it is what it is. He says it doesn't bother him that I can't drink anymore, but deep down I wonder if he wishes he could have a wife that could drink normally? Before kids we did a lot of drinking together. He can take it or leave it though. Maybe I was a bad influence lol. Sorry for the ramble. Just my morning thoughts/worries.
One thing I love about sobriety is how much more I enjoy food. When I have had a few drinks I lose my appetite and don't even want to eat. I am looking forward to a good meal and yummy dessert tonight
It does make me a little sad that we can't enjoy a glass of champagne or bottle of wine together but hey, it is what it is. He says it doesn't bother him that I can't drink anymore, but deep down I wonder if he wishes he could have a wife that could drink normally? Before kids we did a lot of drinking together. He can take it or leave it though. Maybe I was a bad influence lol. Sorry for the ramble. Just my morning thoughts/worries.
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Originally Posted by Ladybug2 
You all make me laugh. We have such a great group here and I am just so grateful to still be a part of it.
One thing I love about sobriety is how much more I enjoy food. When I have had a few drinks I lose my appetite and don't even want to eat. I am looking forward to a good meal and yummy dessert tonight It does make me a little sad that we can't enjoy a glass of champagne or bottle of wine together but hey, it is what it is. He says it doesn't bother him that I can't drink anymore, but deep down I wonder if he wishes he could have a wife that could drink normally? Before kids we did a lot of drinking together. He can take it or leave it though. Maybe I was a bad influence lol. Sorry for the ramble. Just my morning thoughts/worries.
One thing I love about sobriety is how much more I enjoy food. When I have had a few drinks I lose my appetite and don't even want to eat. I am looking forward to a good meal and yummy dessert tonight
It does make me a little sad that we can't enjoy a glass of champagne or bottle of wine together but hey, it is what it is. He says it doesn't bother him that I can't drink anymore, but deep down I wonder if he wishes he could have a wife that could drink normally? Before kids we did a lot of drinking together. He can take it or leave it though. Maybe I was a bad influence lol. Sorry for the ramble. Just my morning thoughts/worries.Ladybug you just answered your own question sweetheart :-) you wonder if he could have a wife that drinks normally ......but then you say he could take it or leave it !
He wants YOU darling , not the you on booze .
He sounds like a lovely guy. He's got a lovely woman ( you ) it's not gonna take long to figure this out . You are so much better than a glass of wine .
They love you as a Mum a wife , a daughter , sister etc
You are a VERY lucky girl my darling one xxxx :-))))) xxxx
Kick that **** to the kerb , don't end up in rehab with your children pining for you cos sadly that's what awaits you.
Sorry to be blunt but sometime the truth needs to be told.
I love you dearly and don't want you to end up like me Ladybug waiting for that call that they have a bed for you in rehab .
This is your future if you DONT quit now & your kids will NEVER LET YOU FORGET IT
xxxxx
I love you
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Thanks Snooz, I needed to hear that. I need to wake up and realize how dangerous this disease really is. My oldest couldn't handle me staying in the hospital for 2 nights when Abby was born let alone a rehab stay. I love you too dear friend.
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Darling , I've been there with my little ones , you are such a beautiful person , I love your posts , your words , your smarts. That will ALL leave you ;-(
I want everything good for you where I went wrong .
I don't want you waking up crying when your husband has left cos the drink got to you
You don't have the control of your girls anymore .
You NEED to fix this NOW sweetie , I'm not being harsh ,it's a reality check for you .
I'm 53 I thought it was all good but it all turned to Shittt .
you are so young and can be so , so happy , you don't need ****** booze .
It's poison
It really is Ladybug xxx
I want everything good for you where I went wrong .
I don't want you waking up crying when your husband has left cos the drink got to you
You don't have the control of your girls anymore .
You NEED to fix this NOW sweetie , I'm not being harsh ,it's a reality check for you .
I'm 53 I thought it was all good but it all turned to Shittt .
you are so young and can be so , so happy , you don't need ****** booze .
It's poison
It really is Ladybug xxx
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I really am privileged to be a julyer the women of Julyers are awesome I'm realising its only me Bob & D representing the boys Pete can you make a post help even it up a bit lol
In all honesty the way everyone helps each other here to me is like sunshine
Julyers you are all amazing
In all honesty the way everyone helps each other here to me is like sunshine
Julyers you are all amazing
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Oh ladybug I read that back , I'm so sorry if I sounded harsh , I really am. It's just the mothers instinct that kicked in .
I want you to have such a blissful life with Abby and your other daughter xxx all the fun things you can do when sober and not hungover xxx
ok now I'm nagging lol
I should go to bed .... Love ewe
I want you to have such a blissful life with Abby and your other daughter xxx all the fun things you can do when sober and not hungover xxx
ok now I'm nagging lol
I should go to bed .... Love ewe
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Originally Posted by soberwolf
I really am privileged to be a julyer the women of Julyers are awesome I'm realising its only me Bob & D representing the boys Pete can you make a post help even it up a bit lol
In all honesty the way everyone helps each other here to me is like sunshine
Julyers you are all amazing
In all honesty the way everyone helps each other here to me is like sunshine
Julyers you are all amazing
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Oh Snooz, you weren't harsh at all. I need to hear it all. I've been struggling with this since my oldest was 2, so 3 1/2 yrs now. I woke up one day and realized I had become an alcoholic - just snuck up on me so quickly. Started going to AA with a 2 yr old in tow and it worked for a little (on and off). Then a few months later I got pregnant and all was wonderful. 3 months later we lost the baby and my drinking picked back up and got worse - until April of 2013 when I found SR. I have to get this right now. I will be 44 next month to answer your question so not so young 
I really do welcome and value your advice so please don't feel bad for giving me a good kick in the arse
I really do welcome and value your advice so please don't feel bad for giving me a good kick in the arse
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