saoutchik

Agree with Jojo Sis. He doesn't even have to jump through hoops - just stop undermining you at every turn.

IfYouCanDream - How are you today? I hope you are feeling a bit less rotten about things

OnMyWay7

Hi all,

IYCD - stay around here and keep following and posting. Would like to hear about your life as well. Sister and I can't be having all the emotional hell fun...

Sister - yes if he really loved you he would have supported you through your recovery even if he didn't want it for himself. Hang in there and I'm with Jojo - don't let that stuff touch your lips. I was sober for a few months in 2011 and gradually went back to a place where it was worse then when I quit. I'm scared of it and have a feeling that if I have one here and there I'll be back here in 2017 saying "I don't know how it got this bad..." I want a better life.

Hi Saoutchik - how's rainly London? I go back to Amsterdam in a few weeks but haven't been to our UK office all year - I need to make a trip there while it's still nice out...

As for me - I decided to be somewhat of an adult and told my SO that I saw her posting on Match.com and that I'd like to talk about it in therapy and set ground rules. I know I can't live in the same house if she's going to start dating - oh BTW I didn't know we were offically broken up and she said she still wanted to try to co-esist for the kids even if I wasn't in love with her anymore.

It is reallu beautiful today - all sun and warm. I have to take my son to a well visit and then I'm going into the office. We're having a "summer celebration" where they bring food trucks in and we all get a free lunch. Last year was really great.

Take care all
TB

Soberwolf

Keep up the good work Januarians

OnMyWay7

Hi Soberwolf. We're hanging in there. Long summer days are nice and it's good to be outside.

Soberwolf

They are indeed Teebee enjoy the beautiful summer evening

saoutchik

Evening everyone,

I have been to Middlesbrough in the North East of England today and have done OK. Not been home long, sitting on the balconey while it's still light.

I would say you handled that situation rather well Teebee. Still, it can't have been a bundle of laughs finding it out

Thinking of you IYCD, post if you need to

saoutchik

Be great to see you if you came to London Teebee. Hope you get time

Dee74

have a good weekend everyone

D

OnMyWay7

Hi all. Weekend here and just living - going to rain tomorrow most of the day. Might actually have to clean the house. Highlight of the weekend - I have a message scheduled for Saturday at 5. Downer of the weekend - couples therapy on Sunday. Yes Sunday where I guess we'll discuss more the dating web site that my SO "just typed something in to see what was available in the area" in case we broke up for good (insert rolling eyes here)

Anyway. Message Saturday (insert happy face here)

saoutchik

Hi, hope everyone ok - IFYD?

I was going to watch the Formula E (electric)
Grand Prix in Battersea Park but decided £65 for a ticket is not good value.

Soberwolf

Hope everyone is having a nice weekend

saoutchik

You have a nice weekend too Dee ( it's probably Tuesday or Wednesday by now in Australia)

Staying up late tonight - Canada v England in Vancouver

Jojo1965

WOOOOOOO HOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!!

lol


Jojo

saoutchik

Japan in the semis

Jojo1965

Good game! Congrats!


Jojo

Sisterbobby

so true, it has been a month now living with my daughter and we are getting along great. Bonding again. I still have bad days and good days. My daughter kicks me in the a** when I am feeling to sorry for myself which I need.
Sobriety does bring on clarity. Oh yes it does...

I have work tomorrow so later.

saoutchik

Thanks Jojo

Well done Sis for seeing this through

Sisterbobby

Up at 4 am, just tossing and turning in bed, so up drinking coffee. Moe and his little stuffed kitten (almost as big as him) beside me.
Had a wonderful dream about my mommy lab last night but woke up pissed at AH. We put her down last year due to doggy alzheimer. She got pretty bad, wondering, peeing and pooping all over, getting lost in corners ect... Anyway, when she started to pee all over the house we (AH and I) didn't quite know what to do. We moved her down stairs so she could easily make it outside to do her business. One morning, I heard my mommy lab yelp with fright and pain, i ran down stairs to find her outside shaking and AH nonchalantly making his lunch for work. I asked him what the h**l happened. Apparently my mommy dog was peeing in the house, he grabbed her arthritic helpless body, rubbed her nose in her own pee and tossed her out side. I was livid. I wanted to rub his nose in the remaining pee and toss him out. Anyway, i had a nice dream about her but it was quickly replaced with that awful dreadful memory.

I know, get all that muck out of my head.
Off the work.

Sisterbobby

back yard peachtree, loaded down with peaches, not more than five feet tall, making peach cobbler for potluck today. Tomorrow Im trying my luck on some jam!!! Wish you all were close to try it.
Picture is sideways???

saoutchik

How great to be able to grow your on peaches Sis.

It has been a beautiful day here - we are expecting a mini heatwave over the next couple of days (yes in London). Still daytime at gone 9pm. Played Crazy Golf this evening which was fun. Walked down Brick Lane -cutting edge fashion (for all ages it appears)