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Arrow Moms and Mums Club 2013 Part 2

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Old 05-30-2013, 03:43 PM
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Checking in for part 2 thread:-). Hope everyone e is doing good tonight:-)
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Old 05-30-2013, 03:51 PM
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We already have a new thread, yay!

Anewpage, I went to see my Dr last month after I decided to quit drinking to get a complete physical/bloodwork. Was so worried I had damaged my liver, etc. I came clean with her and she was very supportive. I think most healthcare professionals deal with this a lot. I was just so tired of lying about how much I was drinking and wanted her to know so she could run the right tests, etc. You are a good mom for trying to get help. You just need to commit to it and put in the work. Not easy, I know, but it will be worth it in the long run
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Thanks everyone for the support.

She wanted me to go to an outpatient rehab which goes for 2 weeks, 6 hours a day, Mon-Fri. I said I can't do it, I have kids I have to take care of during the day. So I have another appointment with her next week, we are going to discuss this further. Until then she said try to stick to only 2-3 drinks per day, and make sure they are REAL measures, not doubles or triples. So I am trying. I am also going to go on anti-anxiety meds which I think will help tremendously. Feeling good about the future. It's going to be a struggle but I think I'm ready. My liver, my family and I deserve better than this addiction.

Hope all of you ladies are doing well today!
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Wishing you the best Anewpage! Hope the doctor can help.
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Thought maybe we were talking to much in home room got our seats changed!!! New thread
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This is such a great thread. I pop in off and on all day at work and it is a real pick-me-up. All the great ladies on here have such awesome advice and support and are trying so hard.

Anewpage - So glad you went to see the doctor! Hope you're feeling better soon

Hope everyone has a wonderful, sober evening!
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Anewpage please be careful with anti anxiety meds and drinking (NOT MEDICAL ADVICE MODERATORS)
But when mixed with alcohol not a great combo.
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Honestly not coping today.


I have easy and amazing kids, husband that supports me as much as he can. I'm so ashamed of my using and stuffing everythjbg up. Our 5 kids and my hubby deserve better.
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You deserve better you really need to start living you as much as you live your kids!
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Hi new to SR and hope its ok if I just jump in.

Midlife-what has you so down today? Sounds like you are really hurting
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How do you believe that? Like really. I have not once gotten clean or stayed clean for myself. Always for someone else. I know 100% if it wasn't for my family I would be using with no desire to stop
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Happy beingme. I just don't want to be here. Hubby will never trust me agajn. He thinks I've cheated, I feel that even going to the bathroom he's wondering if I'm doing drugs. He's worried.
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Does he have a reason to be worried? My husband worried about the same stuff. In the end I did give him a reason. I behaved very inappropriately online with a man. When I got caught was when my drinking really went over the deep end.

I felt I didnt deserve sobriety for myself either. But, in the end I realized if I didnt care enough about myself to get sober for me it wouldnt matter. Husbands can divorce you or die. Kids grow up and leave you. In the end there may be only you. So you have to do it for you
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He doesn't need to be worried.
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Sorry about that mid. With my past history my husband understands my need for a connection with others dealing with alcoholism but I keep myself only on forums. I dont pm.
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Fair enough
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Happy I'm glad you are here! Hiw old are your kids?
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Welcome, happy! Glad you found us
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