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Old 08-19-2009, 04:25 PM
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Old 08-19-2009, 04:38 PM
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why do I feel like persona non grata in this thread? No one greets me or even admits to my being here. I am unwelcome so will stop posting in "your" thread. I'm sick of being ignored and know when I'm not wanted so I willl just stay out of here. Thanks for nothing. and it's good to know you welcome newcomers but not me. I'm glad my sobriety doesn't depend on the "friendship" here since I feel no friendship.
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Old 08-19-2009, 04:39 PM
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Old 08-19-2009, 04:44 PM
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Isn't it a good feeling to reach out to a newcomer. I remember walking into the rooms, so scared and the warm smiles and hands outstretched to welcome me made all the difference in the world. I have been to some where there is no warmth and its not a good feeling even for someone with some time. I bet this girl was so grateful for you and the women there tonight. She was no longer alone.

Yes it really does feel good, because it reminds me the way I was and the hopelessness I felt. There is a good bunch of people who attend that group I was at tonight. People who really care. I love it and feel loved. But you have to give to recieve.
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Old 08-19-2009, 04:51 PM
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I was talking to my sponsee tonight and she was so amazed how some of the women came up to her and said they wanted to personally say hello and I was explaining the same thing, that its a program that you give back, kinda like paying it forward. She is shy and she said she feels funny when walking into a meeting. I suggested that when she goes into a meeting, to extend her hand first and introduce herself and she will see how rewarding that will be and it will help her overcome her shyness.
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Old 08-19-2009, 04:55 PM
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Any news from the girl in treatment?? NY girl didnt show at the meeting, she probably active again..
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Old 08-19-2009, 04:58 PM
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spoke to her over the weekend, she said she isn't suppose to use the phone and was sneaking the phone call, so I don't know when I will hear from her again. I have to sit down and write her a letter. I wish I could just text or email it, lol, haven't really sat and wrote a letter in a while. But I will do it. She is so loved in the program, many of the women ask me about her all the time. They were happy she went back into rehab.

That's sad about NY girl, I was thinking about her too. I'm glad you brought her up tonight.
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Old 08-19-2009, 05:05 PM
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Hi guys!
Just got home from work...still don't know if I've got the next 4 days on my own...
Should we take bets??? LOL
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Old 08-19-2009, 05:07 PM
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Angel, I think your getting to like going out for those fancy meals and enjoying your own company. HOw did you get on in church last weekend ?? did you like it?
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Old 08-19-2009, 05:09 PM
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have to sit down and write her a letter. I wish I could just text or email it, lol, haven't really sat and wrote a letter in a while. But I will do it
This letter could be very important regarding carrying a message of love to her. I have a letter I got when I was in treatment and I keep it in my big book. I often take it out and read it. A text will get deleted!!
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Old 08-19-2009, 05:11 PM
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I bet he stays home, he wants to spend quality time with his Angel

But Angel wants her man to go, she doesn't need quality time, she wants alone time lol.

So, will he or won't he, stay tuned for the next part. Did he or didn't he go. dum dee dum dum........
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Old 08-19-2009, 05:14 PM
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Angel, I think your getting to like going out for those fancy meals and enjoying your own company. HOw did you get on in church last weekend ?? did you like it?
Service was okay...but I enjoyed volunteering my time there on Friday & this Monday even more
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This letter could be very important regarding carrying a message of love to her. I have a letter I got when I was in treatment and I keep it in my big book. I often take it out and read it. A text will get deleted!!
Thanks I needed to read that, I will send her a special letter.
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Old 08-19-2009, 05:18 PM
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Originally Posted by Believe808 View Post
I bet he stays home, he wants to spend quality time with his Angel

But Angel wants her man to go, she doesn't need quality time, she wants alone time lol.

So, will he or won't he, stay tuned for the next part. Did he or didn't he go. dum dee dum dum........
LMAO!!! and this song comes to mind.....

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Old 08-19-2009, 05:24 PM
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Originally Posted by Believe808 View Post
Thanks I needed to read that, I will send her a special letter.
A special hand-written letter can touch the heart like nothing else...
and treasured for a lifetime
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Old 08-19-2009, 05:29 PM
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lol I love the clash!! I have a recording of my son singing that when he was 4....aww!!

what you doing in the church angel?
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Good to see the fun in here
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Old 08-19-2009, 05:36 PM
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HI nogard.....where have you been? How are you?
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Old 08-19-2009, 05:37 PM
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what you doing in the church angel?
moving furniture & cleaning up the cat room...believe me, those cats are my friends now! LMAO!
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Old 08-19-2009, 05:37 PM
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Hi Kev, how are you today?


Angel, I love that song, I'm sitting here singing it now. lol. So when will you know what he's doing?
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