Bottoms Part 120
CindeRella is proof that a new pair of shoes can change your life!
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I'm great. did a little retail therapy today. New bath stuff from Lush and a new gown. Life just doesn't get any better than that for me. I LOVE to take a bath. How are you Rella? I saw that you were not happy to be home from Florida. Can't say that I blame you there.
CindeRella is proof that a new pair of shoes can change your life!
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Bath! Lush! Wow! I just took a bath and did not put enough hot water in it! *sigh* I love bath's too!
Yay not happy to be back....It is hard being away from Family! Plus I really do not want to be back here as I have to move out of my girlfriends in two weeks-and into Mr. Flip Flops for the time being until I find a job and a place to live! Not something I'm looking forward to doing at all! I know it sound horrible but it is the situation with us not good, not bad but not going anywhere!.....(I I know I know! I will take care of that situation soon too) Just keep praying for the guidance to get out of this "in between" it is taking a toll on me now!
Yay not happy to be back....It is hard being away from Family! Plus I really do not want to be back here as I have to move out of my girlfriends in two weeks-and into Mr. Flip Flops for the time being until I find a job and a place to live! Not something I'm looking forward to doing at all! I know it sound horrible but it is the situation with us not good, not bad but not going anywhere!.....(I I know I know! I will take care of that situation soon too) Just keep praying for the guidance to get out of this "in between" it is taking a toll on me now!
CindeRella is proof that a new pair of shoes can change your life!
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Thanks Ro Ro! I have been in Florida regaining my brain cells from all the chaos at the girlfriends....it has become out of hand hence why I need to get out..I just feel so badly for my niece (8 yrs old) she called me when I was in Florida and when I came back she said to me I'm so glad that you are home! My friend has been letting out a lot of anger and stress on to her daughter (Which we all know how that works!) It is so sad to see as there is nothing I can do! However I need to gain myself and sanity back and my life! I find it hard to concentrate on my life and direction while living there! I'm just hoping to get back on track and in my own place and great job! Putting it out there and praying that my niece makes it through without me there on a daily basis! 
LUSH Mmmmmmmmmm love it all! And yes very expensive stuff but worth it!
LUSH Mmmmmmmmmm love it all! And yes very expensive stuff but worth it!
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Sorry about the kerfuffle either today.
I sent this to Nikky - apparently it's not good enough - and I got a mouthful of abuse for my trouble.
Seems I'm always in some trouble in this thread so I'm gonna stick to Newbies for now.
This is not what I come to SR for, and I'm walking away from all of this now.
Night all.
I sent this to Nikky - apparently it's not good enough - and I got a mouthful of abuse for my trouble.
Seems I'm always in some trouble in this thread so I'm gonna stick to Newbies for now.
This is not what I come to SR for, and I'm walking away from all of this now.
Night all.
Private Message from Dee74
I took your Grateful post this morning to refer to the Bottoms thread.
When i saw what you posted about bottom feeders after Scaredy posted - I thought you meant us all and I knew Scaredy would be hurt
If that's not the case, and I had the wrong end of the stick, then I'm sorry.
But I never called you ****. I would never call anyone ****. I had a lifetime of that myself.
And, if you stayed in bed til one crying it's not my fault, Nikki.
You could have spoken to me any time if you felt that hard done by. You have my email.
I, and lots of others in bottoms and elsewhere on the boards have done nothing but try to support you.
I understand youre under a lot of pressure- but the fact is we all are -as is obvious on the boards right now.
Everyones having trouble so maybe we should be a bit sensitive to that too, Nikky.
I see you had a hard day - so did I.
I'm not a saint but I do my best.
D
I took your Grateful post this morning to refer to the Bottoms thread.
When i saw what you posted about bottom feeders after Scaredy posted - I thought you meant us all and I knew Scaredy would be hurt
If that's not the case, and I had the wrong end of the stick, then I'm sorry.
But I never called you ****. I would never call anyone ****. I had a lifetime of that myself.
And, if you stayed in bed til one crying it's not my fault, Nikki.
You could have spoken to me any time if you felt that hard done by. You have my email.
I, and lots of others in bottoms and elsewhere on the boards have done nothing but try to support you.
I understand youre under a lot of pressure- but the fact is we all are -as is obvious on the boards right now.
Everyones having trouble so maybe we should be a bit sensitive to that too, Nikky.
I see you had a hard day - so did I.
I'm not a saint but I do my best.
D
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seeing as you so desire to make a public deal of this dee then lets do it
1> **** happens when you assume stuff, which is exactly what you did
this happened due to my bad judgement & your assumptions
an that you want to make a private disagreement is particularly childish & not what i would have thought of you to do
i find it all quite ridiculous.
the abuse you copped was for this particular reason
as for anyone else who wants to put there opinion in
i suggest you take this example of wise advice an dont
i think many of us myself an dee included need to grow the f up
that in no way stems to all of you
gyps ro you two are inparticular two people i would not say this about
i will not leave here cos i wouldnt give anyone that power over me
i just get sick of the Bull that goes on between people here.
if you have to have an opinion do so via email.
Unlike me i suggest you carefully word what you say2 avoid more drama as we'vr seen what happens with misinterperetation
might i add at no time dee did you ask what it was in reference to you simply jumped on your hi horse from the word go
i didnt need your accusation nor your judgement after coming out of hospital last night,
i didnt wish to make it a public thing,
as i have some pride,
i am travelling so badly, after an incident i did to myself i had a mental health assessment in the psyche ward.
the slightest thing is sending me over the edge right now an if iwas dead everyone would effing be happy so there you go
in a nutshell
1> **** happens when you assume stuff, which is exactly what you did
this happened due to my bad judgement & your assumptions
an that you want to make a private disagreement is particularly childish & not what i would have thought of you to do
i find it all quite ridiculous.
the abuse you copped was for this particular reason
as for anyone else who wants to put there opinion in
i suggest you take this example of wise advice an dont
i think many of us myself an dee included need to grow the f up
that in no way stems to all of you
gyps ro you two are inparticular two people i would not say this about
i will not leave here cos i wouldnt give anyone that power over me
i just get sick of the Bull that goes on between people here.
if you have to have an opinion do so via email.
Unlike me i suggest you carefully word what you say2 avoid more drama as we'vr seen what happens with misinterperetation
might i add at no time dee did you ask what it was in reference to you simply jumped on your hi horse from the word go
i didnt need your accusation nor your judgement after coming out of hospital last night,
i didnt wish to make it a public thing,
as i have some pride,
i am travelling so badly, after an incident i did to myself i had a mental health assessment in the psyche ward.
the slightest thing is sending me over the edge right now an if iwas dead everyone would effing be happy so there you go
in a nutshell
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Hey Nikks hon I just replied to your other thread.
Stay in focus - and try to slow down your thinking. You're home, and you're safe. Can you get some rest? Even if you just lie down? This will pass. Just don't give in to the feelings. The pain won't kill you, it just feels that way. I've been there so many times, and I know what it's like, I promise. Hang in there Nikks!!
Stay in focus - and try to slow down your thinking. You're home, and you're safe. Can you get some rest? Even if you just lie down? This will pass. Just don't give in to the feelings. The pain won't kill you, it just feels that way. I've been there so many times, and I know what it's like, I promise. Hang in there Nikks!!
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Nikky! 
In my experience, it's a very good idea to make a rule not to post negative stuff on forums. It usually only leads to more negative stuff. And it's hard to stick to. I know, as I've posted my fair share of negative stuff on here!
But, when things are tough, try to post about how you feel as openly as you can, as hints and suggestions aren't usually the best way of getting stuff across, and especially on the internet - the written word is far from as effective as the spoken word and face to face there are lots of visual and other cues that say a lot about how we feel.
I gather you were feeling a bit left out, and that is maybe what led to some of your posts. All you need to do is say so, we're all here for you when you feel like that - just tell us. 
Dee, I know you only ever try to help people on here - I've never seen you do anything else than that, so I know that there are deffo some crossed wires involved with you and Niks. :ghug3
I hope to see you both posting in bottoms again soon and hopefully everybody can put stuff in the past.
In my experience, it's a very good idea to make a rule not to post negative stuff on forums. It usually only leads to more negative stuff. And it's hard to stick to. I know, as I've posted my fair share of negative stuff on here!
But, when things are tough, try to post about how you feel as openly as you can, as hints and suggestions aren't usually the best way of getting stuff across, and especially on the internet - the written word is far from as effective as the spoken word and face to face there are lots of visual and other cues that say a lot about how we feel.
I gather you were feeling a bit left out, and that is maybe what led to some of your posts. All you need to do is say so, we're all here for you when you feel like that - just tell us.
Dee, I know you only ever try to help people on here - I've never seen you do anything else than that, so I know that there are deffo some crossed wires involved with you and Niks. :ghug3
I hope to see you both posting in bottoms again soon and hopefully everybody can put stuff in the past.
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WHAT the WHAT?!
Dee, take a break for a bit... then you'll be back in a form fitting to our forum.You always come back better than ever.
Jules... don't lay low, you should be posting more.
Nikky hun... take a breath. I'm not sure exactly what happened but I think it just may have been blown out of proportion?
Hi RoRo, Rella, RK (that's all the R's right?
Tanho. I don't know what this Lush stuff is but now I want some 
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Dee, take a break for a bit... then you'll be back in a form fitting to our forum.You always come back better than ever.
Jules... don't lay low, you should be posting more.
Nikky hun... take a breath. I'm not sure exactly what happened but I think it just may have been blown out of proportion?
Hi RoRo, Rella, RK (that's all the R's right
? Tanho. I don't know what this Lush stuff is but now I want some .
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I don't know what all happened either. Take a break as needed, I guess. I have been a lurker for a couple of weeks and it works fine for me.
Rella, I am sorry your having to move again. I sure hope your life gets settled soon.
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Rella, I am sorry your having to move again. I sure hope your life gets settled soon.
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