Class of November Part 3
Once again, who the f is woollie.
Wibble - you've gone all wise on me!! I've upset someone already doing the exact same thing you have been talking about , saying no! (It wasn't the lodger, don't worry!) But I figure the same as you - if I can't see myself handling it sober, I'm not doing it.
But being a people pleaser is one of my defects - I think a lot of woman have this problem, right girls?
Wibble - you've gone all wise on me!! I've upset someone already doing the exact same thing you have been talking about , saying no! (It wasn't the lodger, don't worry!) But I figure the same as you - if I can't see myself handling it sober, I'm not doing it.
But being a people pleaser is one of my defects - I think a lot of woman have this problem, right girls?
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LB, the wiseness will just be a passing phase don't worry.
I think the thing thats just struck me is that if you (I mean us...not you LB!!!) are gonna go through the hell of stopping drinking only to put yourself into positions where you are gonna drink...well you might as well stop beating yourself up and just fookin drink.
Stop torturing yourself on a alcoholic forum. Unless you make that decision to break the connection you are never going to leave it behind.
This is one Christmas out of your life, god only knows how many we've all ruined (seriously i started thinking back to previous Christmases and I had to stop it was fookin my head up....).
Just do whatever you have to do to make sure you don't drink. If that means driving EVERYWHERE so people can't bust your chops about drinking then do that. If it means not going somewhere then don't go!
I know we've all got kids (well I haven't but i've got a dog and a PS3 so its similar) and responsibilities but that should be all the more reason not drink!!!!!
It was like me earlier in the year with all this "meetings in bars" thing. Load of bollocks. Just a way to torture myself. Mad idea don't go in bars... temptation disappears...
I'm so angry with myself I could scream, its so obvious where I've been going wrong. Its not about denial, its about not WANTING to drink. Its deeper than just sitting there sweating looking at the bottle of wine.
Sorry I'm ranting, its just clicked in my head and its so painfully clear.
I think the thing thats just struck me is that if you (I mean us...not you LB!!!) are gonna go through the hell of stopping drinking only to put yourself into positions where you are gonna drink...well you might as well stop beating yourself up and just fookin drink.
Stop torturing yourself on a alcoholic forum. Unless you make that decision to break the connection you are never going to leave it behind.
This is one Christmas out of your life, god only knows how many we've all ruined (seriously i started thinking back to previous Christmases and I had to stop it was fookin my head up....).
Just do whatever you have to do to make sure you don't drink. If that means driving EVERYWHERE so people can't bust your chops about drinking then do that. If it means not going somewhere then don't go!
I know we've all got kids (well I haven't but i've got a dog and a PS3 so its similar) and responsibilities but that should be all the more reason not drink!!!!!
It was like me earlier in the year with all this "meetings in bars" thing. Load of bollocks. Just a way to torture myself. Mad idea don't go in bars... temptation disappears...
I'm so angry with myself I could scream, its so obvious where I've been going wrong. Its not about denial, its about not WANTING to drink. Its deeper than just sitting there sweating looking at the bottle of wine.
Sorry I'm ranting, its just clicked in my head and its so painfully clear.
I think if Wibble was a social worker, he would have arranged his meetings in bars - not anymore tho!!
So Timzup talks to you, but the rest of us aren't good enuff! Humph - (stomp off in fit of alkie sensitivity!!)
So Timzup talks to you, but the rest of us aren't good enuff! Humph - (stomp off in fit of alkie sensitivity!!)
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ah oh...timmy....your busted....wow LB you were a little slow on the uptake on that one!
Next time you talk to him wibs tell him he's hurt all the ladies feelings
TIMMMY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!!!
sigh...at least wibs is here
(say no more here..this is the serious thread....)
Next time you talk to him wibs tell him he's hurt all the ladies feelings
TIMMMY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!!!
sigh...at least wibs is here
(say no more here..this is the serious thread....)
Hey peeps, good to see you are all on form.
Wibbs :ghug3 proud of you.
Got a couple of xmas presents, I just hate shopping. Got to do the rest at the weekend. Going to wrap what I have tonight otherwise I will leave it untill xmas eve.
Wibbs :ghug3 proud of you.
Got a couple of xmas presents, I just hate shopping. Got to do the rest at the weekend. Going to wrap what I have tonight otherwise I will leave it untill xmas eve.
Nands, seriously my job/career couldn't physically be any further away from being an accountant.... I mean seriously.......
Yeah timzup speaks to me but said something about the rest of you smelling of wee. I don't know... it was something like that anyway. Or maybe he's got house guests.... no actually i think it was the wee thing
Timzup will be back, the amount of abuse i'm throwing at him at the moment is unreal. He's doing ok, he had a bit of rough time and decided to follow the Wibble steps of experimental drinking for a while. But he's gonna be ok
Sorry if i got all ranty earlier, things are just starting to make sense and I need to tell people!!!!
Yeah timzup speaks to me but said something about the rest of you smelling of wee. I don't know... it was something like that anyway. Or maybe he's got house guests.... no actually i think it was the wee thing
Timzup will be back, the amount of abuse i'm throwing at him at the moment is unreal. He's doing ok, he had a bit of rough time and decided to follow the Wibble steps of experimental drinking for a while. But he's gonna be ok
Sorry if i got all ranty earlier, things are just starting to make sense and I need to tell people!!!!
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We LOVE the new "ranting wibbley".....give timmy hell for us
Wibs...are you the one on the left or the right? I never could keep you and timmy straight....
And I know for a fact you are an accountant...I've got it all imagined in my head....wibs sorta looking like a weeble ... sitting by his weeble wife by the fire after a hard day of crunching numbers..dog at his feet....
don't go ruining that immage...it helps me to sleep at night knowing you are out there defending the trivials from all those NEGATIVE numbers....
Wibs...are you the one on the left or the right? I never could keep you and timmy straight....
And I know for a fact you are an accountant...I've got it all imagined in my head....wibs sorta looking like a weeble ... sitting by his weeble wife by the fire after a hard day of crunching numbers..dog at his feet....
don't go ruining that immage...it helps me to sleep at night knowing you are out there defending the trivials from all those NEGATIVE numbers....
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