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Old 12-08-2019, 05:56 AM   #61 (permalink)
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Her sense of humour always made me laugh until I hurt.

If you recall, she used to post her "teabag treasures", little pieces of wisdom that came with her tea bags. Even around this time last year, as she approached her final days and was becoming weaker and more bed ridden, her humour did not leave her.

She wanted us to remember her with smiles, never with tears,so I am posting this funny quip and will smile at the heavens this morning.

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Sorry I’ve been falling short lately with the Teabag treasures.

For the past two days they’ve been repeats.

Yesterday was the thorn of experience, and today was the difference between a flower and a weed.

Here’s a word of wisdom for them: KISS MY FAT BUTT!

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Old 12-09-2019, 02:27 AM   #62 (permalink)
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Old 01-02-2020, 09:05 AM   #64 (permalink)
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Old 01-02-2020, 09:23 AM   #65 (permalink)
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SO TRUE dearest Courage. s ❤️

I can't help but think of this time last year, the last conversations I had with her...the last time I spoke to her was January 4.

She wanted an explanation to something PJ had said that was very Australian and she wasn't sure she was understanding correctly....and she laughed so hard when she got it....

I wish I had recorded that conversation.

I will love you forever dearest Kathy: we all will. s ❤️
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If God Gave us his Son the Stars Gave us a Glimmer of a star.. for just a brief bit of time.. miss her so much.. prayers and love ardy
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Thinking of you Our Kathy
A year ago today He took you to his side
And removed your pain.

We miss you though,
We miss your sensibility, your compassion, your kindness,
And your wonderful sense of humour.

You made people feel a sense of worth
You words so down to earth and grounded and encouraging

I feel honoured that I knew you
And shared paths with you.

You made the world a better place Kathy
And you are missed every day

Love you, Mags xx
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Hard to believe it's been a year since we lost her. I miss you Kathy. Take care of Jack for me until I get there.
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'People living deeply have no fear of death'. Anais Nin

I saw that in action with Kathy and I still thank her for the lesson
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Mags - that was lovely.
Dee - I agree - important lesson learned.

I only wish I'd known Kathy long ago. It would have been very helpful.
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Proudly wearing her granny pants!.

I miss her too, but like Dee, I took the lesson of living well from her. She died with grace and looked forward to resting at the throne of God.

Thank you, Kathy, for the light that still shines here.

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I saw you yesterday, Kathy, or felt your presence. I hit the sale on granny pants at the mall and picked up a package of 3, nice white cotton granny delights.

I heard you snork "Is that the best you can do?" "Go bold and buy some coloured ones!"

So I reached for a package of beige... ...and the display fell down! I KNOW it was YOU that knocked those granny pants all over the aisle.

I guess beige isn't the colour you had in mind.
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Oh.....what a fantastic story. And yes, that was most definitely Kathy. s xx
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True story, Venus. The moment I headed to granny pants, I KNEW Kathy was behind me, watching my every move, lol.
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Thats a definite Kathy bump Ann - clean up on Aisle 6

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I have this image of Gilly greeting us all at the pearly gates- cigar stub gripped in her teeth, wearing 'angelic' granny pants...and maybe some of the other designer clothing and shoes we oft discussed.
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