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FlyingDutchMan 05-09-2019 08:32 AM

Great news Paco, thanks for sharing it with us. To throw in something myself: yesterday was 16 months without weed for me. I had my doubts earlier this year but that's passed and I've been feeling great lately. I hope the same goes for everyone on this board.

FlyingDutchMan 05-17-2019 09:21 AM

How's everyone doing lately? We've had some newcomers but I haven't heard from them in a while. I hope everybody is still on board. Have a good weekend all.

Ohiochrissy 05-17-2019 11:30 AM


Originally Posted by FlyingDutchMan (Post 7186678)
How's everyone doing lately? We've had some newcomers but I haven't heard from them in a while. I hope everybody is still on board. Have a good weekend all.

day 5 again.

Still a struggle as I still am in contact with people who are daily smokers. I have to be strong and should be able to say no even when they smoke in front of me. Yet that didn’t happen so I am working on meeting new friends that don’t smoke around me.


FlyingDutchMan 05-17-2019 12:31 PM

Thanks for checking in! Being around people who smoke must be a hard thing. I hope you can turn your day 5 into many more sober days :)

Dee74 05-17-2019 04:42 PM

Yeah I had to make new friends Chrissy - it was hard but I'm glad I did, looking back.

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lynnmarie123 05-17-2019 07:08 PM

Being around smokers is hard! I am still around a smoker but I can hardly dump my sister! It just takes commitment and a firm belief that you can do this.
It is possible.

ulfr 05-18-2019 05:05 AM

DAY0 i hope its ok for me to join

Ohiochrissy 05-18-2019 09:41 AM


Originally Posted by River (Post 7187131)
DAY0 i hope its ok for me to join

Of course you are welcome here.

I read a post in the newcomer section that helped me. They were talking about alcohol but I can apply it to Pot. I have to want to STOP smoking pot more than I WANT to smoke it. I am not there yet.

I just know I cannot continue down the same path.

Welcome.

Dee74 05-18-2019 05:41 PM

Welcome River :)

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lynnmarie123 05-18-2019 07:34 PM

"I have to want to STOP smoking pot more than I WANT to smoke it."

I guess the clincher with me was that it was making me more miserable than it was making me happy. So what was the point?

FlyingDutchMan 05-20-2019 05:04 AM

Welcome aboard River!

Pacoloco 05-21-2019 07:39 AM


Originally Posted by River (Post 7187131)
DAY0 i hope its ok for me to join

You are most welcome!

Pacoloco 05-21-2019 11:23 AM

I'm not proud to say that in the last weekend I almost relapsed. I was really tempted. In this past one year and a half, it was the very first time I even considered smoking. I'm really disapointed, I thought I had shut up my AV for good.

I guess that's why people say we will have to be forever humble and vigilant.

FlyingDutchMan 05-21-2019 11:41 AM

Don't be too hard on yourself. Look at it as a wake up call. You didn't smoke and that's what counts. I am curious though, what happened exactly? What triggered it?

Dee74 05-21-2019 05:11 PM

Paco

the important thing is you didn't relapse. You stared the desire down and won - thats a great victory :)

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Pacoloco 05-21-2019 05:38 PM


Originally Posted by Dee74 (Post 7189211)
Paco

the important thing is you didn't relapse. You stared the desire down and won - thats a great victory :)

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Thanks Dee. It means a lot.

Pacoloco 05-21-2019 05:41 PM


Originally Posted by FlyingDutchMan (Post 7189046)
Don't be too hard on yourself. Look at it as a wake up call. You didn't smoke and that's what counts. I am curious though, what happened exactly? What triggered it?

I was all by myself during the whole weekend at my sister's beach house and I found a half joint in the drawer. Then my AV came all over me. But, like Dee said, I won.

Dee74 05-21-2019 06:36 PM

I was tempted a couple of times in my first year but each time it got easier to say nah - I don't need that.

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Pacoloco 05-27-2019 11:14 AM

I went again to the beach house and the joint was there. This time I just threw it away. End of story.

Dee74 05-27-2019 04:00 PM

That's a great end to the story Paco :)

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