Husband is a high functioning addict and I don’t know what to do
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Sorry you are going through such an awful time.
Yes, I hope you do stick to your boundary here, it sounds horrendous.
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You might find these recent threads in the F&F of Alcoholics forum relateable, I would really recommend reading all of Fortworthnative's threads.
https://www.soberrecovery.com/forums...ng-easier.html (Why can't leaving be easier.)
https://www.soberrecovery.com/forums...e-anymore.html (Round and round is exhausting. Don't want this ride anymore!)
https://www.soberrecovery.com/forums...my-stbxah.html (Open letter to my STBXAH)
Yes, I hope you do stick to your boundary here, it sounds horrendous.
To read other's posts you just click on where their name appears, in a thread (above their picture) and you get a drop down menu and can choose View all threads or posts by that person.
You might find these recent threads in the F&F of Alcoholics forum relateable, I would really recommend reading all of Fortworthnative's threads.
https://www.soberrecovery.com/forums...ng-easier.html (Why can't leaving be easier.)
https://www.soberrecovery.com/forums...e-anymore.html (Round and round is exhausting. Don't want this ride anymore!)
https://www.soberrecovery.com/forums...my-stbxah.html (Open letter to my STBXAH)
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Join Date: Sep 2018
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ive got no idea how I’m going to cope now with my job, bills, rent etc no bloody idea!
hello anxious 32. You will cope, with all of it. You don't need to know how just yet. Keep putting one foot in front of the other and remember to breathe. The addict is out of the house now, your mind will get a break from the noise of the day to day chaos. There will be room for new thoughts.
Read around the friends and families of alcoholics forum and you will see that with very few exceptions, it just gets worse and worse. You have made a decision to change things before they get any worse.
Strength to you. You are not alone.
hello anxious 32. You will cope, with all of it. You don't need to know how just yet. Keep putting one foot in front of the other and remember to breathe. The addict is out of the house now, your mind will get a break from the noise of the day to day chaos. There will be room for new thoughts.
Read around the friends and families of alcoholics forum and you will see that with very few exceptions, it just gets worse and worse. You have made a decision to change things before they get any worse.
Strength to you. You are not alone.
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