so mad now
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Originally Posted by tracer 
I am also mad at the fact that everyone seems to think that smoking pot all day not under a doctors orders is medicinal and a health benefit. its absurd.
I'm sorry she hurt you. You chose sobriety over a woman who is stoned all the time and misled you. IMO that's the right choice.
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i come from abstinence based recovery so its hard for me to wrap my head around marijuana maintenance, but now that its legal in my state I may have to give it a try.
For the record, I don't think she was wonderful.
You're in recovery, she's not. There only a few ways that can end and unless both parties end up in recovery and stay there, the outcomes are all bad.
Shes not the last woman you'll ever meet or be attracted to you, man.
Move on - stay clean and sober.
Live the hell out of your life
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Wise words, Dee. It may hurt to let go and move on, but there is no doubt in my mind that it will hurt you more in the long run to stay or continue to pursue this relationship...it is toxic. It came close to leading you back to drug use yourself.
You and your sobriety matter more than anything on earth. Believe that, hang on to that like a lifeline. You deserve better and being alone is better than being in a toxic relationship.
Time will bring you more dreams. The lessons you learned this time around will help you see the red flags more clearly next time.
Good luck.
You and your sobriety matter more than anything on earth. Believe that, hang on to that like a lifeline. You deserve better and being alone is better than being in a toxic relationship.
Time will bring you more dreams. The lessons you learned this time around will help you see the red flags more clearly next time.
Good luck.
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