I feel like I'm responding better.
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I feel like I'm responding better.
We saw AW a couple of times over the past week. It was normal enough. She asked about us taking our son to a game room so I drove them and had a good time.
Next visit,
She mentions getting pulled over and the police said she hasn't taken care of a expired tag ticket and there is a warrart for her but they let her go and said she needs to get it taken care of.
After that she continues by saying I thought you were going to take care of that.
(That conversation had taken place before she relapsed and I had to replace Christmas for the kids due to it. )
A few text of her asking how my meeting went and she will always love me and the kids.
And the pitch! "Can I please have the title to my car so I can get a loan and pay my warrant. My boss is gonna cosign a loan for me for 500 so I can pay it. "
My reply, I'll ask my attorney.
Wow, I used to fall for this crazy mess hard. God help us all
TD
Next visit,
She mentions getting pulled over and the police said she hasn't taken care of a expired tag ticket and there is a warrart for her but they let her go and said she needs to get it taken care of.
After that she continues by saying I thought you were going to take care of that.
(That conversation had taken place before she relapsed and I had to replace Christmas for the kids due to it. )
A few text of her asking how my meeting went and she will always love me and the kids.
And the pitch! "Can I please have the title to my car so I can get a loan and pay my warrant. My boss is gonna cosign a loan for me for 500 so I can pay it. "
My reply, I'll ask my attorney.
Wow, I used to fall for this crazy mess hard. God help us all
TD
Perhaps the best answer is "I'll think about it and let you know."
Then make the best decision for you and the kids.
Does the car belong to her? Is the title in her name only? If so, the sad truth is that she is entitled to have it...
Then make the best decision for you and the kids.
Does the car belong to her? Is the title in her name only? If so, the sad truth is that she is entitled to have it...
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The car is in both our names and currently listed in our divorce as joint property.
I'm doing what the divorce paper work reflects to not buy, sell, trade or open new accounts until it's final.
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Just before the car title request was the " I will always love you and the kids. " and so on.
The date is nearing. I still hope and pray for her. I also am accepting that words mean nothing. It's not healthy for me to think any other way.
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The most disheartening part is addiction lead her to not even fight for our kids. I have really thought about that a great deal.
Addiction truly took everything of the per son I once knew.
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Yeah, watching someone choose a substance over their kids is the clearest example to me of how seriously drug addiction can mess a person up. That's extreme. No matter how deeply I loved my husband or how happy I was with him, the moment he relapsed I knew I'd drop him for my kids in a second. And that's a person. A person has intrinsic value. A drug isn't a human being. His relapse hurt so much because when I looked at him high, all I could see was my future divorce.
Just before the car title request was the " I will always love you and the kids. " and so on.
Towards the end of my relationship, my ex was pretty much like a bad used car salesperson. Always trying to sell me BS with words, complements, and empty promises while the end goal was always something for himself, financial, time, rides Etc.
The most disheartening part is addiction lead her to not even fight for our kids.
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