Anaya

Agree with Ann and others -- eloquent shares -- and adding my prayers for JJ and you, TT as well.

GardenMama

How are you doing today, T? I am thinking of you and sending ideas for all kinds of other more productive distractions your way! Do something good for yourself, or others, this weekend. I hope you find some peace soon. It is such a hard place to be. We are here for you!

britgirl

Prayers for you and your family, you are doing amazingly well and helping your son in the only way possible.

allthatsgood

T- please know all of us are thinking about you and sending our love your way. So sorry to see you are going through this - I can honestly say I feel your pain.

Bekindalways

T prayers for you to let go and prayer that jj walks the path of his life exactly as he needs to (That was what I prayed for my own qualifier - argh).

FeelingGreat

Keep it up jj; this might be the turning point for you, and in his attitude towards you. Stay away successfully and he may gain the pride and self-sufficiency to drag himself out of the relapse. If you interfere now you will be sending him a message that you don't have confidence in his ability to help himself.

Having said that, my thoughts are with you. Hang on tight, you can do this.

Ilovemysonjj

Thank you all. My heart is heavy but life will go on. Going to a Halloween party tonight. Praying for a miracle

Bekindalways

Hope the party is fun jj.

Take care of yourself and every moment you stay away from trying to fix things for him, you are sending the powerful message that he can figure things out on his own and he can.